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    (Original post by bansheeee*)
    what do you mean? Angelina Jolie is 38 , and she looks better than most people i know.
    Angelina Jolie is hardly a typical 38 year old, is she?
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    (Original post by ArtGoblin)
    Angelina Jolie is hardly a typical 38 year old, is she?
    anyone can look as good as her if they put in effort and don't let themselves go.
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    (Original post by meskell)
    That is not true, perhaps 35+ years time.
    Ssssh! I'm trying to make ugly people feel better!
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    (Original post by bansheeee*)
    anyone can look as good as her if they put in effort and don't let themselves go.
    Switch the word 'effort' for 'money', and perhaps you're right.
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    go out with people that are uglier
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    (Original post by ArtGoblin)
    Switch the word 'effort' for 'money', and perhaps you're right.
    you're not exactly a gerriatric at 38 , my cousin is 38 and she looks in her 20's. You don't need that much money to exersize and and get a bit of botox.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    it's not so bad if you're a guy, ugly girls have it a hell of a lot harder than ugly guys do
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Please keep anon, very personal and people I know go on here.

    I've constantly had low self esteem and I absolutely despise my appearence but no one ever sympathises with what I'm going through. I constantly get "Get over it" or "don't let it bother you" which never helps.

    Can anyone tell me if they managed to get over their dislike for their appearence?
    Don't be so negative for a start. Uglyness is in the eye of the beholder. And beauty is overrated.
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    Well, you're not really ugly. You're just someone else's pretty. Which is always an important thing to remember. And anyway, we're all ugly. All our oily, fleshy bone. Either that or we're all beautiful. I think it depends on how you look at it. So, look at it this way: those people who think you're ugly are the ugly ones. Look at their souls. And I know this sounds corny and stupid. But when you look at someone who laughs at you, you get a bad vibe from them, that's the ugliness of their soul, looking at you. Obviously you're the most beautiful one of us all.
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    make up/ surgery/ confidence/

    seriously as hard as it is to believe there are people out there that dont judge people based on their looks
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    I just don't look in the mirror and don't really have friends that take facebook pictures.
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    (Original post by A Stranger in Moscow)
    I just don't look in the mirror and don't really have friends that take facebook pictures.
    You're not ugly :no:
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    its just like a question what if i was different..actually there is no problem in being different in nature...but the problem is when we are treated differently from others.....so according to me there is no problem in being ugly...just be yourself...
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    Avoid all mirrors.

    No really - out of sight, out of mind.
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    (Original post by Magnum Opus)
    You're not ugly :no:
    But I don't like how I look :p:
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    everyones good looking in their own way... the first thing u need is confidence... stop thinking of urself as being ugly...
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    (Original post by Doublereedfreak)
    Dress sense, haircut, hygiene, personality.
    Personality being the biggest, if you're really approachable, funny, kind and fun to be around, it makes a hell of a lot of difference, even though there will still be *******s that won't get to know you.

    Oh and if people judge you on appearance, then you don't want to know them really.
    Well said.
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    Buy an escort if your missing out on sexy time.
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    OP, you're probably not as disadvantaged as you think you are. Mainly because a) there are plenty of girls who are far from superficial, and b) looks are largely subjective anyway.

    Ugly women probably have thimgs a lot worse -- men can be appreciated more often for their inner beauty. :yep:
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    My guess is that you're just normal looking.
 
 
 
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