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    Me and my girlfriend are with each other every spare minute of the day we have. We are both madly in love with each other and have been going for 3 months, it was love at first sight tbh, when she sees me she still runs and jumps on me and we kiss and we just basically know were made for each other, every time i see her my heart beats faster - i just cant get enough of her. Taking into account what i just said that we are deeply in love, I'm wondering if the time we spend together which is alot will affect our relationship? Atm its going perfect but I just dread the day it might go wrong.. :|

    Sounds like the honeymoon period to be honest, I'm always skeptical to say it's love anytime during that period because everything is so intense.

    I think too much time spent together, especially at the cost of alienating friends and family, is definitely unhealthy. Each needs their respective space and time on their own to reflect on everything in their life... you don't want to become the same person after all!

    That said, when I'm at uni, I generally spend 20/24hours a day with my boyfriend... but we hang around the same friends so it's not really a problem in that sense. And if I wanted some time alone, I'd go to my room and tell him so.

    It does depend on each relationship, for some this will lead to suffocation and ruin what is essentially a good relationship. I just don't think it's healthy or smart for either partner to focus so much of their energies on each other that they don't see friends or family - especially at 3 months.
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