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    (Original post by ScotlandStandUp)
    You've told us how hard you're current life is, and with respect I've been through worse, now there's two things you can do about it, one is change it and one is pretend everything's alright(head in the sand position basically).

    If you choose to change it, you have to accept that it can only get better, university is a new start, a new adventure, you will finally leave the nest and will be freed from your chains your dad has bound to you at home. You may even decide never to return home because of how great your life may become, however this'll only happen if you let it happen. You need to make the jump, no one else can do it for you, we can advise you and help you along the way if you fall but you have to keep going.

    Or, you can sit at home, day in day out, going on about what a miserable life you currently have, and moan about everything, hiding in a corner pretending it's not as bad as it is, crying beneath your bedsheets at night.

    Your choice.

    You only live once, try and make the most of the chance you've been given.
    you are annoying
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    You'l be surprised how similar the people who have chosen the same course at the same university will be to you!
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    (Original post by sidewalkwhenshewalks)
    you are annoying
    What he said is actually very true.
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    (Original post by hannah_dru)
    What he said is actually very true.
    he's also a condescending ****
    but who am I to judge?
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    (Original post by sidewalkwhenshewalks)
    he's also a condescending ****
    but who am I to judge?
    Don't pay attention to his posts if you don't like him? Sorted.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Anon or delete plz.

    I'm going to university surprisingly soon now. Its less than 2 months away and I've been dreading it ever since we had to start thinking about uni in June 2008 when we first started doing our personal statement and UCAS stuff. Its become more and more scary the closer it gets and I struggled with the tail end of my A Level work. How am I realistically meant to cope with uni work if I struggled with A Levels?

    I have not had a smooth ride this past 18 months. Far from it. My mum has become increasingly ill (not cancer, but general stress, depression and so on). My dad has treated me more and more horribly since he's realised I can't cope with a high workload very well (he noticed I was flagging in my final year of school). My sister hates me all the time, constantly insulting me and playing loud music in her room. My brother hardly ever returns home (he left uni a year or two ago). My gran is getting old and has cancer, so my dad is always really edgy. There is tension concerning financial issues between my dad and my aunt so I can't properly see my cousins, and I was really good friends with them.

    I have not had the best 18 months as you can tell. To top that off, I was bullied at the end of year 12 and throughout year 13 but the school did not help me very much. They could see I was struggling but they care more for the people who do really well. Horrible, completely untrue rumours have spread and I have remained at home most of the time instead of being able to socialise properly.

    I have not drunk any alcohol (or virtually none) and I am told freshers week is a drinking fest where if you don't drink shots that are put in front of you, everyone will hate you. I'm having horrible nightmares about it all. Can someone help please? I feel like I have turned everywhere and gotten all the help I can but its still not enough. Sorry for the long speech, I hope you can read it and help me.
    anyone who hates you just because you wont drink shots against your will has something wrong with them.
    Just think of it like this, going to uni is your chance to turn it all around! OK you will still have problems at home but you can take the opportunity to study hard and make new friends which I think would make the whole situation a lot easier on you and possibly help resolve the animosity between you and your dad. hope this helps
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    What university are you planning to go to? Maybe you can meet some nice folks on here who'd be willing to help you ease in. I'd be willing if you come to Manchester.
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    Apparently A levels are harder than uni, the extent to which depends on your course. But if you're doing an essay writing course like criminology or something then you got nought to worry about in terms of workload because you could probably sit finals right now and blag your way to 40% (PASS).

    Also, if you kill yourself, who will everyone bully and hate?? so you have to take into consideration the feelings of those around you before you make such a life changing decision.
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    (Original post by Stanley90)
    Also, if you kill yourself, who will everyone bully and hate?? so you have to take into consideration the feelings of those around you before you make such a life changing decision.
    Shut up.
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    (Original post by hannah_dru)
    Shut up.
    I thought that advice was pretty sound actually...
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    (Original post by Stanley90)
    I thought that advice was pretty sound actually...
    You would. Yes he should carry on living so people can bully him more:confused: because it's helpful to bullies. Yeah...whatever.
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    (Original post by Stanley90)
    Also, if you kill yourself, who will everyone bully and hate?? so you have to take into consideration the feelings of those around you before you make such a life changing decision.
    If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That really did hurt my feelings
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That really did hurt my feelings
    Just ignore him. You're always gonna get people like that on the internet.
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    (Original post by hannah_dru)
    You would. Yes he should carry on living so people can bully him more:confused: because it's helpful to bullies. Yeah...whatever.
    WTF?? You took it completely out of context man, that's not what I meant. I was just highlighting the fact that people around him/her actually care about him/her, regardless of how they show it. And if he/she decides to take their own life these people will feel like crap, so he/she should take their feelings into consideration. I can udnerstand why you might have misunderstood though
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That really did hurt my feelings
    I'm geniunely not good at phrasing things man, sorry!! just read above and you'll understand hun
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    (Original post by Stanley90)
    WTF?? You took it completely out of context man, that's not what I meant. I was just highlighting the fact that people around him/her actually care about him/her, regardless of how they show it. And if he/she decides to take their own life these people will feel like crap, so he/she should take their feelings into consideration. I can udnerstand why you might have misunderstood though
    Wha? That sounds nothing like what you wrote at all. Ok!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    If you haven't got anything nice to say, don't say anything at all. That really did hurt my feelings
    If you are going to Manchester then we will be friends
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    are you sure you actually want to go to university, don't think this is something that has to be done, many people have success in there lives without a degree
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    Uni will be a new start esp if you not living at home you wont have your dad and sis moanig at you. U wont get bullied at uni most people grow up alot whe they get there and stop childish things like that. When you get to uni you will meet loads new people and makes friends that will prob be friends for life. Your life will change and i think it will for the better. Dont do anything like that just try and relax over the summer ignore them and if you are moving to the halls cross of the days on a calander until you move out. So many people are prob just as scared and nervous about going to uni as you are. You will be ok and id you do struggle there always people who can help you. Also if there somethig you have to do for uni that you dont understand post it on here im sure someone who year or more above you doing the same course will be able to help you. Just relax and remeber uni is going to be one the best times of you life!
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    (Original post by sidewalkwhenshewalks)
    you are annoying
    Quite.
 
 
 
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