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    (Original post by Emily069)
    It's no big deal really. You should tell your bloke, he'll probably think it's hot if he's like normal guys.

    Also, maybe you should wait until you've tried it. I've kissed loads of girls and I still don't know if I am bi or just really horny yet.

    You don't have to tell people, it's not like you're a different person now you think you're sure you're bi.

    Maybe just wait till uni and let people know when and as you are asked. It wouldn't be cool if everyone thought you were jumping on the band wagon...
    My favourite quote today!:p:
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    (Original post by rmhumphries)
    Tell your boyfriend - I assume you trust him, and it shouldn't effect how he sees you if he is worth his salt.

    Tell others when and if you feel like you are confident enough, if you don't want to, don't tell people.
    (Original post by 2Av)
    Its up to you when you feel like you want to come out and say Your Bi or are you? You stated you never kissed a girl or anything, lets say If you did experiment, you may find it a TURN on or not.

    So yeah best advice i can give you is ready to say it when you feel like it. You got your whole life ahead of you. Not sure how your boyfriend will react. Some may react good or bad to this. Only you know your boyfriend than anyone else here.
    (Original post by isawsparks89)
    Ehhh if I were you, don't say unless it comes up - that way, it looks like you don't make a big deal out of it, and he shouldn't as well
    I sorta came out to my friends while ratarsed the other night :erm: You COULD try that but it's probably not best.
    (Original post by Jinxy)
    Tell whoever you want. I'm bi too but i don't choose to tell everyone cos it's quite personal to me. If they ask i'll tell the truth though.
    Aww, thanks for the advice everyone, its really good advice thanks =) (I'm new on here BTW)
    Sorry about the overuse of smileys thing to everyone who doesn't approve xx
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    I don't think you need to keep it a secret but there is no rush to tell people. I think it will make you bf paranoid because he will think you are interested in some girl. All that matters is how you feel... if you are asked then be honest but no need to shout it out either - after all you didn't go round telling everyone that you were straight so why should it be different if you are bi?
    Just because someone is bi doesn't mean they are likely to get with a girl, any more than they are likely to get with a different guy.
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Why did you kiss the girls then?
    She wanted to taste their cherry chapstick :dontknow:
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    (Original post by Elf.)
    Aww, thanks for the advice everyone, its really good advice thanks =) (I'm new on here BTW)
    Sorry about the overuse of smileys thing to everyone who doesn't approve xx
    No problem

    And ignore people who complain, use smiles are much as you want :p:
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    (Original post by rmhumphries)
    Just because someone is bi doesn't mean they are likely to get with a girl, any more than they are likely to get with a different guy.
    You are right but people aren't always rational in a relationship! He may be scared that she will experiment with girls and start to like it... it's the realtionship-paranoia curse :yep:
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    Why did you kiss the girls then?
    Cause it's fun? :teeth: I don't see the point in labelling myself at this point...
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    You are right but people aren't always rational in a relationship! He may be scared that she will experiment with girls and start to like it... it's the realtionship-paranoia curse :yep:
    Very true :yep:
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    She wanted to taste their cherry chapstick :dontknow:
    I don't like cherry flavoured stuff...
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    She wanted to taste their cherry chapstick :dontknow:
    XD

    Nah, that's not how bi works :p:
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    My favourite quote today!:p:
    Ha thanks. It is true though :ninja:
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    (Original post by Emily069)
    Cause it's fun? :teeth: I don't see the point in labelling myself at this point...
    By 18 years old you'll know if it's just for the guys to watch or real feelings lol
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    I don't understand people's urges to label themselves! There's no particular reason for you to tell your bf unless you think it's important to your relationship, or even your friends. Just accept that you're probably attracted to girls, and carry on with life. Coming out as Bi is often seen as attention seeking anyway so people probably won't take you particularly seriously.
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    (Original post by Elf.)
    Have known this for ages really..But I don't know how to tell people "/ I don't know whether I should/need to tell people..?? Help plzzzz =3
    I've got a boyfriend, should I tell him?? Or will he be weirded out? =3 I've never kissed a girl or anything, but have been attracted to girls..
    And, I have a friend who recently came out as bi, but maybe if I tell people, she'll think i'm copying her....argh!!? (I'm not ^^) I don't know what to do.. "/ Advice please? x
    You are not sure whether to tell your boyfriend you like girls too? Well, try this: Suggest a threesome. If he says yes, then you are OK. If he says no, then he is probably gay too!
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    If it makes you feel any better, I've got tons of bisexual friends, and their boyfriends all know.

    In fact, my friend dated a guy and a girl at the same time, and they knew about each other. Personally, I think that's a bit out of order, but the point I'm trying to make is that some guys won't mind. Other guys will, though. Thing is, it depends what your boyfriend is like.
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    (Original post by Emily069)
    I don't like cherry flavoured stuff...
    (Original post by emmie19)
    XD

    Nah, that's not how bi works :p:
    I like cherry flavoured stuff! It's awesome :yep:

    Well im a straight guy so I wouldn't know the details of being bi. My knowledge comes from the music industry (porn also :p:) and now I feel like Katie Perry has lied to me :sad:
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    (Original post by emmie19)
    By 18 years old you'll know if it's just for the guys to watch or real feelings lol
    I dunno... I don't think it's either of those... it's FUN :awesome:
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    (Original post by chazilton)
    You put in so much random characters your post looks like modem line noise. For example what's the random forward slash and quote mark about above?

    tell people "/ I don
    Could be an alternative way of saying ":/"
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    (Original post by voudreau)
    I like cherry flavoured stuff! It's awesome :yep:

    Well im a straight guy so I wouldn't know the details of being bi. My knowledge comes from the music industry (porn also :p:) and now I feel like Katie Perry has lied to me :sad:
    :rofl: Ok, the details of being bi...

    We can be girly girls, but we don't all sound slutty to each other, like 'Tiffany can you hold my thong hehe'.. and I don't think will all have sex with girls or get naked tbh.. but you do snog :p:

    That help?
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    The only thing your bf will do is suggest a threesome.
 
 
 
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