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    PLEASE KEEP ANON OR DELETE.

    i was in the very early stages of a relationship with this girl, who i found to be almost perfect; everything i could ever ask for. y'day, however, i sent her a messag saying i had my doubt as to whether her and I was actually a long-term thing, as that is what i want. so, i told her that we should just sever our ties. however, now i deeply regret, but see it as foolish to contact her telling what i feel so soon after ending it. we never had an argument of any kind.

    what do i do?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I was in the very early stages of a relationship with this girl, who i found to be almost perfect; everything i could ever ask for. y'day, however, i sent her a messag saying i had my doubt as to whether her and I was actually a long-term thing, as that is what i want. so, i told her that we should just sever our ties. however, now i deeply regret, but see it as foolish to contact her telling what i feel so soon after ending it. we never had an argument of any kind.

    what do i do?
    Gotta talk to her, in person, or at least over the phone - you don't know if she wants to take it further, too - meet the parents or whatever. Poor form for telling her something like that by text.

    Re-read the text and consider whether you've ruined things forever.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    PLEASE KEEP ANON OR DELETE.

    i was in the very early stages of a relationship with this girl, who i found to be almost perfect; everything i could ever ask for. y'day, however, i sent her a messag saying i had my doubt as to whether her and I was actually a long-term thing, as that is what i want. so, i told her that we should just sever our ties. however, now i deeply regret, but see it as foolish to contact her telling what i feel so soon after ending it. we never had an argument of any kind.

    what do i do?
    Man up and a grow a pair?

    then try phoning her?
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    nope.
    you ended it, accept it as it is.
    you are gonna **** her head if you start saying you think you made a mistake.
    plus, she wont forget the pain.
    and she will nag you F O R E V E R
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    You've made you big stupid bed now you must lie stupidly in it!
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    I think you need to talk to her about it, and explain that you have made the mistake otherwise you are going to regret this for a long time. At least if you speak to her you will have a final conclusion.
    There is a chance she will take you back, there is also a chance she will be furious, upset and never want to speak to you again.
    You don't know until you try!
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    say u lost ur phone and ur mate did it... unless you've spoke since.
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    Bake her a cake.
 
 
 
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