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2 guys!!!???

Okay, so this isn't really a MASSIVE problem but I'd just like to know what people's opinions are on this.

I was seeing a guy for a bit but it wasn't very serious and we just sort of lost contact about a month ago. He's really nice and gorgeous looking too. I though about him quite alot after we lost touch though, but felt a bit silly ringing him.

Then on Saturday night, I got talking to this absolutely GORGEOUS guy that I've always thought is THE most LOVELY lad ever!!! He's really popular, everybody likes him, he's funny and doesn't have a rep for sleeping around or treating girls like crap. We really got on well and he walked me home, took my number and said we'd go for a drink sometime (and we had a bit of a drunken kiss too!).

THEN, last night I bumped into the FIRST guy and he said he'd been thinking about me too and was considering ringing me but he also felt a bit of a twit. He's asked me to go for a drink with him too!!! I ended up telling him that this other lad's asked me out for a drink.

What do I do?? Would it be morally wrong for me to go for a drink (after all, it's only a drink right??) with them both (obviously not in the same night) and see who I get on with better? :confused: :confused: Help!!

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I'm glad life's going well for you.
GO with both of course!! :wink:
LonelyDogsBite
I'm glad life's going well for you.

Hey doggy!!
If I rep you today will that cheer you up????:confused:
Reply 4
Go with them on different nights.. but then after that I'd make a decision, you don't want to lead one on and then leave him hanging.
Reply 5
wild thing
GO with both of course!! :wink:


Thank you for that - problem sorted!!! :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:
Reply 6
mik1w
Go with them on different nights.. but then after that I'd make a decision, you don't want to lead one on and then leave him hanging.


I agree with that.... I was also thinking that i should tell the other guy about the OTHER guy (!!!) coz he'll probably find out anyways.... at the same time letting him know how highly in demand i am haha!!! :biggrin:
Go with both, at the same time. And when I say "go" we all know I mean "record a pornographic movie".
Reply 8
Ferret_messiah
Go with both, at the same time. And when I say "go" we all know I mean "record a pornographic movie".

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

THAT was a response I WASN'T expecting!!!
Reply 9
Ferret_messiah
Go with both, at the same time. And when I say "go" we all know I mean "record a pornographic movie".

would people pay to see that?
puk2184
Okay, so this isn't really a MASSIVE problem but I'd just like to know what people's opinions are on this.

I was seeing a guy for a bit but it wasn't very serious and we just sort of lost contact about a month ago. He's really nice and gorgeous looking too. I though about him quite alot after we lost touch though, but felt a bit silly ringing him.

Then on Saturday night, I got talking to this absolutely GORGEOUS guy that I've always thought is THE most LOVELY lad ever!!! He's really popular, everybody likes him, he's funny and doesn't have a rep for sleeping around or treating girls like crap. We really got on well and he walked me home, took my number and said we'd go for a drink sometime (and we had a bit of a drunken kiss too!).

THEN, last night I bumped into the FIRST guy and he said he'd been thinking about me too and was considering ringing me but he also felt a bit of a twit. He's asked me to go for a drink with him too!!! I ended up telling him that this other lad's asked me out for a drink.

What do I do?? Would it be morally wrong for me to go for a drink (after all, it's only a drink right??) with them both (obviously not in the same night) and see who I get on with better? :confused: :confused: Help!!


1) you shouldnt have told him!
2) go with both, decide which you like best, and stick with that one
3) don't go very far with either before you decide....
Reply 11
mik1w
Go with them on different nights.. but then after that I'd make a decision, you don't want to lead one on and then leave him hanging.


good idea, I agree.
Reply 12
trixx
would people pay to see that?

people would pay to see THESE guys, one in particular is HOT - and has the body of a god!!!

not that i'm agreeing to do anything of the sort!! :biggrin: :wink:
mik1w
Go with them on different nights.. but then after that I'd make a decision, you don't want to lead one on and then leave him hanging.

:dito:
Reply 14
puk2184
I agree with that.... I was also thinking that i should tell the other guy about the OTHER guy (!!!) coz he'll probably find out anyways.... at the same time letting him know how highly in demand i am haha!!! :biggrin:


no no no!! Dont tell him cos it might seem like youre almost delivering him an ultimatum; or he may get the wrong impression of you. And plus, just say if he was about to go on a drink with another girl, wouldnt it be awkward if he told you? just a bit!
go out with both, and who knows, you might not like either of them or you might get on mcuh better with the other.
At the end of the day, dont get too worried cos its not as if your cheating on someone is it :p:
Reply 15
foolfarian
1) you shouldnt have told him!
2) go with both, decide which you like best, and stick with that one
3) don't go very far with either before you decide....


I know I shouldn't have told him but I live in a small town and they share a few of the same friends.... I just wanted to be honest! :rolleyes:
puk2184
Okay, so this isn't really a MASSIVE problem but I'd just like to know what people's opinions are on this.

I was seeing a guy for a bit but it wasn't very serious and we just sort of lost contact about a month ago. He's really nice and gorgeous looking too. I though about him quite alot after we lost touch though, but felt a bit silly ringing him.

Then on Saturday night, I got talking to this absolutely GORGEOUS guy that I've always thought is THE most LOVELY lad ever!!! He's really popular, everybody likes him, he's funny and doesn't have a rep for sleeping around or treating girls like crap. We really got on well and he walked me home, took my number and said we'd go for a drink sometime (and we had a bit of a drunken kiss too!).

THEN, last night I bumped into the FIRST guy and he said he'd been thinking about me too and was considering ringing me but he also felt a bit of a twit. He's asked me to go for a drink with him too!!! I ended up telling him that this other lad's asked me out for a drink.

What do I do?? Would it be morally wrong for me to go for a drink (after all, it's only a drink right??) with them both (obviously not in the same night) and see who I get on with better? :confused: :confused: Help!!




well if ur not in a serious relationship with either of them go out with both :smile: xoxo
puk2184
Thank you for that - problem sorted!!! :biggrin: :biggrin: :biggrin:

Youre not harming anyone and you're doubling your chances :wink:
Reply 18
I'm sooooo glad I'm getting support to go out with both - I feel alot better about it!! :biggrin: :biggrin:

Life is sweet.......
Reply 19
wild thing
Youre not harming anyone and you're doubling your chances :wink:


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