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    is this a stalkerish behavior? how do you girls think?
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    Don't do it. It's annoying.

    What is your master plan? Do you like her or just want to get to know her? If it's the latter, making friends with her friends could be a start, but think about how they'd react once they found out you were using them to get to her.
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    How is she intimidating? If you like her in a way that could be more then friendship, i struggle to understand how you are going to have a good relationship with someone that you find imtimidating, given she may be less the more you get to know her but still.

    I think the best thing to do is just to try and talk to her, im sure you will find she wont bite. Using people to get to know or be closer to someone else isnt the best idea.
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    seems kina tough. Maybe break the ice over facebook/msn which will be easier and more comfortable for you to get to know her first before you speak to her face to face if you find her intimidating at the moment.
    & getting to know her friends is always good cause you never can have enough saucy information about a girl now can you!?
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    Don't do it. It's annoying.

    What is your master plan? Do you like her or just want to get to know her? If it's the latter, making friends with her friends could be a start, but think about how they'd react once they found out you were using them to get to her.
    I do not have her number or email. (no courage to ask for). but I have her friends number. So planning to invite her friends and her for a party.
    Yes, they might think I invite them just because of her. ~But there is no other way out. asking her number from her friends may be worse.
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    dWhy don't you try talking to her. Something simple like hey you are friends with so and so, they are pretty sound. then take it from there.
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    we need more details.. How have you met her ? How come you know her friends ?
    The party seems to be a good idea =)
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    But yeah, invite them to party anyway. Parties are good, and the more the better!
 
 
 
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