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    So the thing is, since ive been back from university for the summer, I've been meeting it up with one of my old male friends. It all started with him kissing me one night when drunk and we started texting ever since then, since i've been back we've been going to the cinema, pub, town, normal kinda things really. We get along and everything sometimes even holding hands when we are out etc which is really nice :o:
    so he invites me over to his house one night last week... he came to pick me up, we just watched a film and ended up kissing and touching (through clothes lol) then that was it... there was no sex or anything else.
    what i want to know is.....
    what do i do now? advice please!!! i really want things to work out between us... but i dont know how to play it.... :o: does he even want a relationship? or does it just sound like he enjoys my company and stuff??
    sorry im pretty useless! il appreciate and feedback!
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    Sounds like he just does it when he is drunk - is that the case?

    If so, tell him to stop it unless he means it.
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    yeah sounds like your ok but i wouldnt get in a relationship as youve obviosuly gotta go back to university next month
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    He obv likes you and would like a quick shag. Sorry to put it so bluntly :s. I don't think he wants a relationship, but it's the summer, so why not have some fun
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    So the thing is, since ive been back from university for the summer, I've been meeting it up with one of my old male friends. It all started with him kissing me one night when drunk and we started texting ever since then, since i've been back we've been going to the cinema, pub, town, normal kinda things really. We get along and everything sometimes even holding hands when we are out etc which is really nice :o:
    so he invites me over to his house one night last week... he came to pick me up, we just watched a film and ended up kissing and touching (through clothes lol) then that was it... there was no sex or anything else.
    what i want to know is.....
    what do i do now? advice please!!! i really want things to work out between us... but i dont know how to play it.... :o: does he even want a relationship? or does it just sound like he enjoys my company and stuff??
    sorry im pretty useless! il appreciate and feedback!
    well give it a little time maybe organise a drink or something in a few days - a week and see where things lead from there and if the same reaction occurs just ask him if he wants to take it any further or is it a bit of harmless fondling (pick your words) because you need to know where you stand and maybe he is a little timid and needs some encouragement
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    just be brave and ask him, it will help. . .

    a simple do you want to have a relationship and how do you want to pace it?

    then agree on something
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    Why are people so stupid?

    How are we supposed to know? Ask him!
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    Go on a date and have sex after it, fun for all involved amirite?
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    ask him out!
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    I lostmy V on the sofa, good times =D
 
 
 
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