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    yeh thats pretty obvious now ! what do i say to her then ?!
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    Does it not worry you that she would do that behind her boyfriend's back? It doesn't matter if you didn't "actually" make out - in my mind that is emotionally cheating and you were still pretty physical. What's to say she won't just do the same to you?!
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    She wants you physically, that much is obvious.
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    (Original post by emerley)
    Does it not worry you that she would do that behind her boyfriend's back? It doesn't matter if you didn't "actually" make out - in my mind that is emotionally cheating and you were still pretty physical. What's to say she won't just do the same to you?!
    yeh i think she cheated on him, which is why i also think she needs to say something to him about it and/or finish it with him. The fact that i've known her for a lot longer than him, and i'm guessing she's had this "feelings" for me for a while. what do i say to her then
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    basically i've been friends with this girl for almost a year now, we're really close and i feel i can trust her with anything and vice-versa.
    She's currently dating someone else (who she admits she isn't physically attracted to and is only with him because of his personality) her last few boyfriends treated her like s**t which is why she's with him ^. The other week i told her my feelings towards her and that i really liked her etc. I got texts from her saying " i love x but i really enjoy spending time with you" and "you never know when im single" she stayed around my house the other night and we were cuddling in bed and kissing each other on the cheek/neck etc. She then basically kissed all over my chest and face, and said that she was proud of me for not doing anything back, and how cute i was and i'd make a great boyfriend, she then insisted i gave her a back massage with her top off ?!
    someone explain all this im so confused, surely this is more than best friends right?
    Yeah, it's more, just don't push it or you'll ruin your chances of getting anywhere or staying there once you've got there. Be careful, and be respectful.
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    keep going for it, im pretty sure your get your chance
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    Meh, go for it. Seriously. Just keep getting physical and don't question where its going. You'll get your chance!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    yeh thats pretty obvious now ! what do i say to her then ?!
    *thiswillnotendwell.gif*

    Let's face it, you could have already had sex with her, but she's just gonna **** you over later down the line when she meets a better man.

    Since you're not man enough to take what she's offering, it's either get the sex and mentally/emotionally prepare for the fallout; or make sure she isn't feeling you up and you're laying there like a lemon thinking "this isn't right, maybe we shouldn't be doing this".
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    cool, i'll ring her later and let you know how it goes
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    she's my best friend
    i hate seeing this

    There is no such thing as a guy and a girl being 'best friends' without their being any sort of attraction from boy to girl or girl to boy in the first place...it just doesn't happen. It cannot happen.

    Anyone who disputes this is sadly very naive!
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    (Original post by sean kefw)
    i hate seeing this

    There is no such thing as a guy and a girl being 'best friends' without their being any sort of attraction from boy to girl or girl to boy in the first place...it just doesn't happen. It cannot happen.

    Anyone who disputes this is sadly very naive!
    I know what you're saying, i think it can happen though, if your friends with someone your not physically attracted to,or they're with your best mate etc
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    sigh, yeh so apparently, she doesn't know if anything will happen, she really cares about her boyfriend atm, she was only joking the other night, she doesn't expect attention from me, but she enjoys.
    thanks to those who tried to warn me
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    (Original post by emerley)
    Once a cheat always a cheat
    Yeah OP you better keep that in mind too.
    If I was in your shoes and I ended up with her id be ******** bricks that she was going behind my back too
    but, ...people can,.. change .. occasionally.....
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    I'd step away until she's single. She's messing with your head and your heart and it's not fair on you. My boyfriend and I flirted a lot and knew we liked each other while he was still in a (dying) relationship, but nothing ever happened until after they were over, and I'm proud of it. I was never sure he'd actually end it but I knew we had something special. The day after they talked and got it over with, we went on our first date and lived happily ever after. :blah:

    If you too have something special, it'll work out.
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    I'd kill you for trying it with my gf
 
 
 
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