So my boyfriend told me.. Watch
If he'd be chasing after her, is it worth it really?
If I'm with someone, I'd want to be the only person they'd want to be with
He's always going to find other people attractive/fit whatever, but providing you are the one he wants then does it matter?
He probably shouldn't have told you!! But I would probably only finish with him if he started making it obvious that he was interested in her despite being with me.
If I were you I'd probably end it, I don't know. I see that as the sort of situation that might break down your relationship with your friend as well as your boyfriend, purely because you'll probably get more jealous and upset about any contact they have with each other, and you might resent her as well - or at least I would :/ if you were mega secure and able to ignore a comment like that then it'd be okay, but if you say you're insecure as it is its probably not a very healthy relationship to be in.
I still say it was a hurtful comment, but as cowsgoquack said he was probably just trying to hurt you to make you upset - perhaps you said something to him to make him hurt too so he just wanted to spite you. He's with you and not this girl for a reason, just talk to him about what he said and he'll clear things up for you - we can't speak for him.
Thats an awful thing to say...but i don't think that you should break up with him for it....at the end of the day he is choosing to be with you which means you are more important to him then her...
That's awful. I'd say dump him, your relationship isn't really a proper one if he'd rather be with someone else and spends his time looking at her. :/
he's with you after all! (sounds cliche, but it's true) tell him that you need reassurance though, and he needs to understand that what he said hurt you.. and would your friend do anything with him anyway?
If he knew both of you vaguely, but ended up with you because he failed in getting close to her, dump him now, because he's a terrible person.
1) Keeping in mind that he told you this in the middle of an argument, your boyfriend is going to fancy other people plus he knew that making that comment was going to upset you - perhaps that's why he did it. If your friend was so bloody desirable then he wouldn't be with you would he? It could just be your insecurity fueling the nasty comment and making it worse than it is; believing it more than you need to. Therefore perhaps forgetting about it is the correct option.
2) On the other hand; You're boyfriend fancies you're friend, and in a way told you if things end between you, he'll be after her instead. That isn't really the stable, loving relationship a young woman needs. Especially not when she's insecure. At your age your relationship should be about you two, besotted with each other or what's the point? Perhaps you should break it up with him because you want something better.
Personally I'd choose the second option, but you know what would be best for you. Good luck.
If feeling a bit vengeful, get your best friend to lead him on and them humiliate him somehow, after dumping him
I knoow, I keep telling myself he's choosing to be with me etc., but I still feel insecure! Shes typically prettier, smarter, funnier than me and so next to her I just feel completely worthless. I know my boyfriend would choose me but I just don't see why, and even when he says I'm perfect I still can't help feeling insecure. Gahh who needs relationships!