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Hello. Today I was talking to a very close female friend (I am male), and she spoke to me about her new boyfriend. Apparently he came before he even could get right inside her, the first time they tried to have sex. And then later, he came after about 30 seconds.

Her last two boyfriends could go forever, and she said she found it boring and even a bit offensive. She really liked how this new guy couldn't contain himself at all, with her.

I reckon the novelty will wear off pretty soon, but do any other girls here feel the same was her? That it's exciting and complimentary when a guy cums so quickly? And likes it enough to outweigh the negative factor of it simply being such a short experience?

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She sounds like she doesn't enjoy sex, just the idea of it and therefore likes when it's over quickly so she can enjoy cuddling.
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She sounds like she doesn't enjoy sex, just the idea of it and therefore likes when it's over quickly so she can enjoy cuddling.
Haha I love your signature. Urbandictionary never lies.
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Is it the speed at which a guy cums actually anything to do with how attractive he finds the girl he's with? Or is it just down to his own lack of self-control?
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It happening before you've even started is never good, neither is about 30 seconds in. But it going on (actual penetration) for an hour is crap too. So reasonably quick, but not shockingly so.
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Is it the speed at which a guy cums actually anything to do with how attractive he finds the girl he's with? Or is it just down to his own lack of self-control?
i think its to do with how comfortable you are with the girl. the first few times i had sex with my gf i didn't exactly last long.... but i've got more and more control as we've become closer.
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My ex never lasted very long, 10 minutes was a rare maximum. Once the sex had actually started, it was usually over in about 2 minutes. My current boyfriend can go for 45 minutes of sex...Bit of a difference.

Personally I'd prefer somewhere in the middle...45 minutes starts to wear me out, especially after having spent ages on foreplay too! 2 minutes was flattering but always left me wanting more.

(I don't normally post anon but both my ex and current boyfriends are on the site, and this is a little too personal!)
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Is it the speed at which a guy cums actually anything to do with how attractive he finds the girl he's with? Or is it just down to his own lack of self-control?
It's always a combination of factors, but it seems perhaps to be that guys who can last a long time, can last a long time with any girl. And guys who *** quickly, *** quickly with any girl. Again, subject to certain other modifying conditions.
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I was talking about this with a female friend yesterday and I can tell you the answer is a definite no. At least for 30 seconds!

My boyfriend can go on for about 20 minutes, and sex usually lasts between 10-20 minutes, which is only a little bit shorter than what I'd personally prefer - but we usually skip foreplay.

Her boyfriend has max's out at 5 minutes normally, and she doesn't feel satisfied at all.

I think it is the novelty value of a new relationship that makes your friend so happy now... but I don't think things like this has that much to do with the girl in question, just simply how much self-control the guy has.

From other threads I've read, the general preferred duration of intercourse for both men and women appears to be about 20-25 minutes.
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hmm I guess it can be flattering if a guy is very quick.....better than not at all! however, although it doesn't bother me, if it happens all the time I would get frustrated and a bit... bored. However, if the guys makes it up to me then it's not that bad. Oh, and going on for an insane amount of time does get a bit tiresome.. anything more than 20mins is just that bit too long. Though obviously, everyone differs!
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I don't mind how long it lasts as long as I come.
Sometimes I find it quite flattering because it shows they couldn't help themselves, especially if you know they have to potential to last forever. I like the feeling of wanting more when it ends, because it makes me look forward even more to the next time. But I don't think I'd like it if it was short every time. Since I can't deny that someone that can last for a long time, is very satisfying.
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Well my and my boyfriend are kinda new to sex (been doing it for about six months.. irregularly). I enjoy sex mostly but more in intimacy then the action. Although my boyfriend originally came quick he now lasts longer. Tbh I prefer him to *** quickly because long sex is boring...i like 5-10 mins. However, if he were to *** in 30 seconds occasionally I wouldn't mind.... its flattering.
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sounds like somebody has never been seen to properly
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God, no! A waste of contraception if you ask me..

Having said that, I'd be happy to get pretty much anything these days.
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God, no! A waste of contraception if you ask me..

Having said that, I'd be happy to get pretty much anything these days.
I'm sure the charming fellow in your profile picture would be happy to oblige?
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(Original post by wellisntitfor)
I'm sure the charming fellow in your profile picture would be happy to oblige?
:laugh: It's such a funny thing you could say that.. Truly!!

He's a 2 second wonder too, apparently.
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(Original post by little_red_sox)
:laugh: It's such a funny thing you could say that.. Truly!!

He's a 2 second wonder too, apparently.
orly? why?
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Why do people think a boy coming quickly is flattering? It's not as if you'd be the only girl that he came that quickly for. I'm not telling people what to like in sex but I don't believe someone should be flattered solely because a man ejaculates so quickly. I was with one boy who came fast but I found out afterwards he was like that with other girls as well. He was embarrassed with his problem and wanted to last longer. I wanted him to last longer so he didn't feel bad and also so it could be more satisfying! Guys are just different.
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Why do people think a boy coming quickly is flattering? It's not as if you'd be the only girl that he came that quickly for. I'm not telling people what to like in sex but I don't believe someone should be flattered solely because a man ejaculates so quickly. I was with one boy who came fast but I found out afterwards he was like that with other girls as well. He was embarrassed with his problem and wanted to last longer. I wanted him to last longer so he didn't feel bad and also so it could be more satisfying! Guys are just different.
Yea, I think the majority of the "reasons" for guys lasting a short (or long) time would apply whoever it was he was with. Who you're ******* surely makes a bit of a difference, but I can't think it's as influential as his inherent tendency to *** quickly or not.
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i personaly don't like it. i can understand the whole it's the first time with u but my first bf and i could go on for well a really long time, and i really enjoy 4 play and longer sex sessions. so this 2 min crap sux i mean that nice for him that he was satified but what about the girl right, just because ur done doesn't mean we are lol. the guy i was with last time was a big stoner so the only way to have times longer then 2 min was to get him high( viagra does not work on ppl the smoke weed) and then there was no passion and he would pass out right after, not cool. so ye guys jerking off is a good thing! the more u do the longer u last, the less the shorter. but tomuch, and ya suck. lol but thats just my opinion sorry to offend anyone <3
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