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    (Original post by kita)
    and hello, excuse me, but what is like a 50 year old man doing on here huh????

    Well I am 47 actually, and the reason I came here was that I checked my daughters computer for any indication of gayness (like gay pornography or anything) I haven't found any but I saw this site in the history cache and she must use it. Has my daughter been talking about lesbianism here? And I would like to get advice from people of a similar age. Is it common to be a lesbian nowadays? Why has my daughter turned into a lesbian? Is it these friends brainwashing her? Do many people go through phases or os it too late? I don't know what to do I am at my wits end.
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    I feel my world has been shattered after my daughter told us she is gay. She’s 23 and we have a son of 26. He’s always got on with his life but our daughter is lazy and attention-seeking. She’s found it hard to make friends since leaving school. She started working as a trainee secretary but recently went into hospital administration. One girl in particular has befriended her and she’s gay. She introduced our daughter to a whole new world and has brainwashed her. I can only hope it’s a fad and she will grow out of it but I blame these so-called friends who make her think being gay is OK. I’ll never be able to accept it. I’ll be glad when she’s moved out and away from me.
    You bring her up, you provide for her, you love her and this is how she repays you? You're well rid of her.
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Well I am 47 actually, and the reason I came here was that I checked my daughters computer for any indication of gayness (like gay pornography or anything) I haven't found any but I saw this site in the history cache and she must use it. Has my daughter been talking about lesbianism here? And I would like to get advice from people of a similar age. Is it common to be a lesbian nowadays? Why has my daughter turned into a lesbian? Is it these friends brainwashing her? Do many people go through phases or os it too late? I don't know what to do I am at my wits end.
    Okay you're not for real...going through your daughters things? thats just a load of rubbish!
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Well thanks for your advice but I cannot accept this. She 'came out' (if thats what you can call it) to us during the weekend. And no I am not particularly religious, I just don't agree with homosexuality. We have never had any gay family members in our extended family. But now MY OWN daughter is a lesbian! I know her, she is probably just doing this for attention or trying to 'fit in and be accepted' by her new lesbian friends because she hasn't got any other friends. The thought of my daughter acting in a lesbian way makes me feel sick to the stomach to be quite frank. Why is she doing this to us? She is dragging our family name through dirt and I am dreading the time other family members find out about her being gay. At least we still have our son to be proud of. If she is going to be gay then I don't want anything to do with her and I'm not going to kick her out but things will never be the same and I will look forward to the time I see the back of her. Hopefully it will be quite soon. Nobody is talking to each other in my house now and everyone feels uncomfortable, why did she have to do this to us? I blame these friends I have a right mind to speak to these so called friends and leave my daughter alone.

    Well you have got to let her made her own friiends as if you interfer with her life, she will hate you for it . so let it be, let her have her own choice of friends

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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Why has my daughter turned into a lesbian? Is it these friends brainwashing her?
    It's this site - it sends gay vibes out across the internet corrupting an entire generation :|

    Those are gay flags in my signature not peace flags :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Well I am 47 actually, and the reason I came here was that I checked my daughters computer for any indication of gayness (like gay pornography or anything) I haven't found any but I saw this site in the history cache and she must use it. Has my daughter been talking about lesbianism here? And I would like to get advice from people of a similar age. Is it common to be a lesbian nowadays? Why has my daughter turned into a lesbian? Is it these friends brainwashing her? Do many people go through phases or os it too late? I don't know what to do I am at my wits end.
    i can see from ure point of view that u may be dissapointed with her but put ureself in her position. or if doing that annoys u then just accept her as she is. after all its her life and shes an adult so how does it affect u in anyway. as long as shes nice wiv u wot does it matter?
    i cant judge ure daughter coz i dont know her but im just looking at it frm the worst point of view
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    It's this site - it sends gay vibes out across the internet corrupting an entire generation :|
    lol
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Well I am 47 actually, and the reason I came here was that I checked my daughters computer for any indication of gayness (like gay pornography or anything) I haven't found any but I saw this site in the history cache and she must use it. Has my daughter been talking about lesbianism here? And I would like to get advice from people of a similar age. Is it common to be a lesbian nowadays? Why has my daughter turned into a lesbian? Is it these friends brainwashing her? Do many people go through phases or os it too late? I don't know what to do I am at my wits end.
    oh well. as ur being so nice about it. erm, check the similar threads thing about gay people or sumin....its normal for people top go through this...my advice - dont turn ur back on your daughgter cos if and when she comes out of this gayness phase, she will hate u.
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    (Original post by kita)
    i have come to the conclusion u have made this up for an argument. i agree with whoever suggested that in the first place.
    Congratulations...u nearly had us going there!!

    (ur still sick)

    No I am not making this up I have even contacted coucillors for my family to get over this. I have also written to problem experts for advice.
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    No I am not making this up I have even contacted coucillors for my family to get over this. I have also written to problem experts for advice.
    wow this is for real? apologies...
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    No I am not making this up I have even contacted coucillors for my family to get over this. I have also written to problem experts for advice.
    If this is real: Your an idiot.
    If this is fake: Get a job.
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    No I am not making this up I have even contacted coucillors for my family to get over this.
    What have the council got to do with this? Or do you mean counsellors?

    Keep posting, you demonstrate your age in every sentence.
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Well thanks for your advice but I cannot accept this. She 'came out' (if thats what you can call it) to us during the weekend. And no I am not particularly religious, I just don't agree with homosexuality. We have never had any gay family members in our extended family. But now MY OWN daughter is a lesbian! I know her, she is probably just doing this for attention or trying to 'fit in and be accepted' by her new lesbian friends because she hasn't got any other friends. The thought of my daughter acting in a lesbian way makes me feel sick to the stomach to be quite frank. Why is she doing this to us? She is dragging our family name through dirt and I am dreading the time other family members find out about her being gay. At least we still have our son to be proud of. If she is going to be gay then I don't want anything to do with her and I'm not going to kick her out but things will never be the same and I will look forward to the time I see the back of her. Hopefully it will be quite soon. Nobody is talking to each other in my house now and everyone feels uncomfortable, why did she have to do this to us? I blame these friends I have a right mind to speak to these so called friends and leave my daughter alone.
    Actually this does sound real.

    I'm betting your daughter doesn't have friends because she has issues to deal with--like I said, laziness, attention-seeking, etc. are a part of people's nature (yes, even you) when their environment is completely narcissistic. You're being too involved in yourself. She is friends with these lesbians because this is who she wants to be friends with. If she isn't choosing friends anywhere else, it is because for the first time in her life, at 23, she is grown up and finally getting away of the ignorance of her own family and saying, "to hell with it I don't care about dealing with their ******** anymore--I'm gonna be and do what I wanna be, and do".

    Stop acting like you have the answers for her...if you keep up this ignorance, and try to be the narcissist taking control of her life and decisions, you're only going to be ****ing her up more--distorting her reality by making her think everyone knows what's best for her, and she's "brainwashed". She's only ****ed up because you're trying to play like you control her.


    I seriously advise that you do NOT tell her friends to leave you alone. That will be embarrassing to her, acting like she's completely dependent on help from other people. Even if she is not a lesbian (which I bet she is), she has the right to live this aspect of her life, and experiment with that aspect of her sexuality. She has the right to make mistakes for herself, and live life for herself. Nobody would EVER be normal if they constantly have a narcissist trying to control them. You are ignorant, and I'd bet you being a narcissist goes beyond just that--I'd even bet you have narcissistic personality disorder.

    Back off
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    (Original post by Pencil Queen)
    What have the council got to do with this? Or do you mean counsellors?

    Keep posting, you demonstrate your age in every sentence.

    Tell me about i, he is not very good at English or just a kid playing a prank
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    Oh and 47 years ago Antony without an H was extremely uncommon...Anthony is the "proper" spelling that has only fallen out of favour in the last 20 yrs or so.
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    Well I am 47 actually, and the reason I came here was that I checked my daughters computer for any indication of gayness (like gay pornography or anything) I haven't found any but I saw this site in the history cache and she must use it. Has my daughter been talking about lesbianism here? And I would like to get advice from people of a similar age. Is it common to be a lesbian nowadays? Why has my daughter turned into a lesbian? Is it these friends brainwashing her? Do many people go through phases or os it too late? I don't know what to do I am at my wits end.
    Have you heard the story of the rats? The more rats (higher population) that were born and raised in a cage (community), the more instances of violence and homosexuality occurred. Homosexuality is as natural as violence and adaptation itself...as is heterosexuality--it becomes more common with lesser populations. People aren't meant to be packed in the billions--if that were the case we'd have babies like rats and mice. You can't blame nature for balancing itself. In fact, if I weren't heterosexual myself, I'd probably have to say homosexuals should be seen as stronger than we are--being in-tune with civilization, more evolved, and being a part of solving world hunger, lack of privacy, eliminating violence (hey at least they're doing their part through not having sex and pregnant rather than through elimination; murder), etc.

    By the way, you should really look into narcissistic personality disorder. You sound like you have it. I can't believe you would check her computer and act as if her privacy is your business...even if she was 14 years old, she has the right to explore every aspect of herself--and if that means keeping it a secret from people like you who seem to only want to seek damage for her differences, then it is her right to be completely unknown to you.
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    (Original post by Muffle)
    If this is real: Your an idiot.
    If this is fake: Get a job.
    I am not an idiot.

    I have a job, I am a telesales executive. This is my day off, I work Tuesday-Saturday, my days off are Sunday and Monday. What do you do? Shouldn't you be working?
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    (Original post by Antony Davis)
    I am not an idiot.

    I have a job, I am a telesales executive. This is my day off, I work Tuesday-Saturday, my days off are Sunday and Monday. What do you do? Shouldn't you be working?
    Well alot of us are in education, as i'm at college

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    (Original post by Pencil Queen)
    What have the council got to do with this? Or do you mean counsellors?

    Keep posting, you demonstrate your age in every sentence.

    I am only human, yes 47 year olds can make spelling mistakes like everyone else you know? You don't automatically get better at spelling as you age. That is the silliest thing I've heard.
 
 
 
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