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Does doing a Law degree mean no Social Life?

I am about to do a law degree next year. But I am really scard now as all my friends to change courses, or to at least combine it with another degree. Is it really that hard...and do you find yourself doing more work than most other people, with little time for social life, esp in 2nd &3rd year?
I want to do a Law degree, but I also want to live my life to the full and have a great social life at university.

How do you guys that do Law find it???
And will becoming a lawyer also mean work work work??(Just in case u know any lawyers).
What am I getting myself into?!!

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Reply 1
Nina166
I am about to do a law degree next year. But I am really scard now as all my friends to change courses, or to at least combine it with another degree. Is it really that hard...and do you find yourself doing more work than most other people, with little time for social life, esp in 2nd &3rd year?
I want to do a Law degree, but I also want to live my life to the full and have a great social life at university.

How do you guys that do Law find it???
And will becoming a lawyer also mean work work work??(Just in case u know any lawyers).
What am I getting myself into?!!

1. Not all Law degrees are the same
2. Not all lawyers are the same
3. Not all Law degrees have the same workload
4. Not all lawyers have the same workload
5. What's a 'great social life?'
6. What's 'hardwork'?

Your post is completely subjective - you either want to do Law or you don't. You're either willing to put in the effort, or you're not. You either want to be a lawyer, or you don't. You either want to be a hard-working lawyer, or a shitty, unemployed one.

I really can't help you anymore than that.
I think you could be a little more helpful, Lauren :p: I don't think he was asking for anyone to tell him what he wants...

By comparing it to other degrees it would seem that the workload is greater, yes. But that said I know people doing their law degrees who have plenty of time to socialise. You just need to strike a good balance :smile:
Reply 3
Lauren18
1. Not all Law degrees are the same
2. Not all lawyers are the same
3. Not all Law degrees have the same workload
4. Not all lawyers have the same workload
5. What's a 'great social life?'
6. What's 'hardwork'?

Your post is completely subjective - you either want to do Law or you don't. You're either willing to put in the effort, or you're not. You either want to be a lawyer, or you don't. You either want to be a hard-working lawyer, or a shitty, unemployed one.

I really can't help you anymore than that.


Subtelty not your forte? :p:
Reply 4
It will depend on a number of things.

1. Your ambitions
2. Your ability
3. Your factual recall skills
4. the quality of teaching
5. the rigour of the course.

In the end - most people do have a social life - though again, most have less of one that other uni students. Some have hardly any at all... but in the long run - its often worth it. In my mind at least. I had a fairly wild youth, so I was ready to work hard at age 20.
I believe Nina is female.

And you will get a social life, but not one which will permit you to run 3 socs, play in the football and hockey teams, go clubbing twice a week and have 2 hours lunchbreak every day (stares accusingly at the philosophers!)
Am I gonna have time to do all the sport & music I wanna do? :frown:
Reply 7
Phonicsdude
I believe Nina is female.

And you will get a social life, but not one which will permit you to run 3 socs, play in the football and hockey teams, go clubbing twice a week and have 2 hours lunchbreak every day (stares accusingly at the philosophers!)


really i though you'd have time to play in the teams you wanted and do all the societies and going out you wanted seeing as you only have like 3 hours of lecture or lessons a day.....surely this means you could very easily have a 2 hour lunchbreak as well
Reply 8
Onearmedbandit
Am I gonna have time to do all the sport & music I wanna do? :frown:


I'm sure you probably will have. Let's face it - go to any city or town with a university. Do the students look busy to you? :wink:
Reply 9
Work hard, play hard. The balance you strike at university will probably be quite similar to that of when you start working (with the exception of kids of course). Establishing a good clientele (ie socialising and getting out in the community) and managing your work at the same time will determine how succesful you are. Its important to get a rhythm to suit your character and ambition from early on, so uni is a perfect oppurtunity to see what works, and what does not.

<Burp>
Reply 10
Lauren18
1. Not all Law degrees are the same
2. Not all lawyers are the same
3. Not all Law degrees have the same workload
4. Not all lawyers have the same workload
5. What's a 'great social life?'
6. What's 'hardwork'?

Your post is completely subjective - you either want to do Law or you don't. You're either willing to put in the effort, or you're not. You either want to be a lawyer, or you don't. You either want to be a hard-working lawyer, or a shitty, unemployed one.

I really can't help you anymore than that.


I'm sorry Lauren, but I am aware of all the things you have stated in 2-6. In order to get rid of my fears I had to be subjective, because it is what I'VE been hearing. I just wanted to see whether this was in fact true or whether it was all being a bit sensationalised. I gues when I said a 'great social life', I was a bit ambigious', but I just meant the time to do what you want you want without always being bogged down by work...which is what A-levels feels, esp after March!

I dont think you can "you either want to do Law or you don't"; its not really as simple as that. I think most people take Law because they like the subject, but once they see the workload it all becomes a little less glamorous...unless you like the subject and you really like where its going. You never really know whether you want to do Law until you've really spent some time doing it...as with any other subject..and esp since most people will never have done the subject.

BTW, I dont really know whether I want to be a lawyer, I am not doing Law simply because of that. I just asked because I am exploring it as a career path.

And don't worry if you cant help darl, there are many others who are willing to :wink:
Reply 11
Nina166
I'm sorry Lauren, but I am aware of all the things you have stated in 2-6. In order to get rid of my fears I had to be subjective, because it is what I'VE been hearing. I just wanted to see whether this was in fact true or whether it was all being a bit sensationalised. I gues when I said a 'great social life', I was a bit ambigious', but I just meant the time to do what you want you want without always being bogged down by work...which is what A-levels feels, esp after March!

I dont think you can "you either want to do Law or you don't"; its not really as simple as that. I think most people take Law because they like the subject, but once they see the workload it all becomes a little less glamorous...unless you like the subject and you really like where its going. You never really know whether you want to do Law until you've really spent some time doing it...as with any other subject..and esp since most people will never have done the subject.

BTW, I dont really know whether I want to be a lawyer, I am not doing Law simply because of that. I just asked because I am exploring it as a career path.

And don't worry if you cant help darl, there are many others who are willing to :wink:


I have to say that if you want to go into law you have to be prepared to make some sacrifices. I am certain that a Law degree is definitely one of the hardest courses you could attempt. If you want to be a successful lawyer then you must realise that your Degree will have to have top priority in your life. I know it sounds very harsh but your social life will have to be satisfied with second place. You must be ready to leave your social life behind as soon as you realise your Law Degree is not going the right way for you. It's all right to have a good social life in the beginning (nothing too extravagant though) but when things begin to get overloaded you have to learn to control yourself. Make yourself understand that this 'torture' will only take away a couple of years from your entire life. Once you have graduated and established yourself with a good job then you will have the chance to make up for all that lost social time and rebuild your social life. Indeed, if you work harder leaving less time for social life in those few years, you may end up having a 10 times better social life 5 years later which will continue for the rest of your life. I myself am very far from even applying for a law course but that is what I think to be the right way to look at all this. Lawyers must learn how to make sacrifices as such.
Reply 12
Death
I have to say that if you want to go into law you have to be prepared to make some sacrifices. I am certain that a Law degree is definitely one of the hardest courses you could attempt. If you want to be a successful lawyer then you must realise that your Degree will have to have top priority in your life. I know it sounds very harsh but your social life will have to be satisfied with second place. You must be ready to leave your social life behind as soon as you realise your Law Degree is not going the right way for you. It's all right to have a good social life in the beginning (nothing too extravagant though) but when things begin to get overloaded you have to learn to control yourself. Make yourself understand that this 'torture' will only take away a couple of years from your entire life. Once you have graduated and established yourself with a good job then you will have the chance to make up for all that lost social time and rebuild your social life. Indeed, if you work harder leaving less time for social life in those few years, you may end up having a 10 times better social life 5 years later which will continue for the rest of your life. I myself am very far from even applying for a law course but that is what I think to be the right way to look at all this. Lawyers must learn how to make sacrifices as such.


Are you speaking from personal experience?
Reply 13
No no mate sorry. As I said I am not even close to applying yet. I have just completed my IGCSEs. This is what I think. I am probably wrong.
Reply 14
Death
I have to say that if you want to go into law you have to be prepared to make some sacrifices. I am certain that a Law degree is definitely one of the hardest courses you could attempt. If you want to be a successful lawyer then you must realise that your Degree will have to have top priority in your life. I know it sounds very harsh but your social life will have to be satisfied with second place. You must be ready to leave your social life behind as soon as you realise your Law Degree is not going the right way for you. It's all right to have a good social life in the beginning (nothing too extravagant though) but when things begin to get overloaded you have to learn to control yourself. Make yourself understand that this 'torture' will only take away a couple of years from your entire life. Once you have graduated and established yourself with a good job then you will have the chance to make up for all that lost social time and rebuild your social life. Indeed, if you work harder leaving less time for social life in those few years, you may end up having a 10 times better social life 5 years later which will continue for the rest of your life. I myself am very far from even applying for a law course but that is what I think to be the right way to look at all this. Lawyers must learn how to make sacrifices as such.


Thing is, I have always put my education first, and social life after. I have got a lot of stick for it from my friends, but i have not let it get to me, because I know I will be the one laughing last in the long run!! The thing is, I just hope tha the Law degree wont be THAT much harder as I am not too sure I would be able to handle; that is why I asked.

I am fine with making sacrifes, but I also know that you only live once and that if you live uour life planning for the future all the time, you will wake up one day regretting all the things you could have done when you were yonug. I dont want to be slaving away during the best years of my life ( which I hold to be 20-25), and from the reactions I am getting it seems that that wont be happening in any case. I just have to find the right balance- as I am now I guess.
And the lawyers i have spoken to( not a lot!) have told me it does have a great work load, so I got scared that all that work actually wont be payed off, as you suggested above! But i guess I just have to see..that's the great thing with a Law degree , it is a great degree for any field of work..not just the legal profession!
Reply 15
If you can;t balance it with a social life then I don't think that you should be doing it.
Reply 16
I agree that a Law degree is very helpful for not only law but many fields of work. Espcially in business where a lot of corporate law is involved.

Just one question viviki...How on earth did you manage nearly 7000 posts in about 1.5 years?
Reply 17
very easily thats less than 12 posts a day.
Reply 18
I can barely even do 5 a day. Do you post in many different subforums or just this one?
Reply 19
D&D, H&R and the subs lounge. I've posted loads in the subs area recently when I've been on the computer working late at night think probably have a few thousand posts in there.