When using GMm(1/r1 - 1/r2) which one do you put for r1 and which one do you put for r2 (is the bigger one always r1, etc???)
It really depend on how you derive the relationship GMm(1/r1 - 1/r2). If you do not want to remember which is bigger, you can always apply the change in GPE as Change in GPE = Final GPE - Initial GPE ΔU=−rfGMm−(−riGMm)
where rf is final separation between M and m, ri is initial separation between M and m.