Stay at home mums have the hardest job and here's why.

This is simply false and nothing short of ignorance, my mum was stay-at-home parent and despite what you believe she did worry about the bills and the food shopping just like working parents. You see when one spouse is a stay-at-home there's this mutual understanding that they are both contributing to the marriage and household. One may be in monetary terms but the other is equally as important, why would the working partner agree to to their spouse staying home if they were not happy?

Oh wow I'm not sure what to say to this but it's obvious you don't have a good relationship with your own mother. Imagine if she read this, what would she think?

It's referring to a lot of comments I've seen you make

This just shows how bitter you are. I'm not saying what your mum did wasn't difficult, but you can't go around saying "YOU DON'T HAVE PROBLEMS BECAUSE MY MUM DID THIS EVEN WITH BEING A SINGLE PARENT". It would be like me shouting down everyone every time they mentioned something that upset them because I have suffered severe depression. Different people have different problems.

I don't think you can say a certain job is the hardest, it depends on the person, but I think this is a response to the criticism that stay at home women get




Yeah, it's mocked if you want to do it, which is wrong. I don't mock people who choose very high powered careers, I would appreciate the same

Once again, it targets fathers who are always portrayed as bumbling idiots who could barely make toast without setting the kitchen on fire. It also targets women who choose to have careers and choose not to stay at home because supposedly they've decided to take the easy way out because, after all, 'being a stay at home mum is the hardest job in the world'.

Overall, you can't take any video like this seriously because it's produced to play on emotions to sell a product. And, of course, thousands of idiots all over the world fall for it.

Care to state which? I won't even go into what I've noticed about your posts.

And I don't think I've once said "you can't have any problems", but being a stay at home mother is not even remotely close to the hardest thing you can do. Period. I'm not sure how "bitterness" enters the equation.

You want to do it? Good for you. But don't expect applause.

Exactly

You're absolutely right it's pathetic how people like you dismiss stay at home mums as parasites because they choose to sacrifice themselves everyday for the sake of caring for their own children rather than being selfish and going back to work less than a month after giving birth.

It's not a dig at stay-at-home dads, I'm not sure how you've perceived it as such. Traditionally the stay-at-home partner is the woman so the statement is only pandering to what most people identify with. You'd be hard-stretched to find a stay-at-home dad if you asked all your friends and their friends they had a stay-at-home parent. Truth is most dads don't want to care for the children and do housework while donning an apron which is understandable but you can't also expect the slogan to also encompass stay-at-home dads when it's seldom the dad that stays home.

We can change it to stay-at-home parent to appease your sensibilities and avoid any misandrist implications, however it's just making a mountain out of an ant hill if you ask me.

How laughable.

Having someone there when things go wrong and to take away the burden is in no way comparable to facing everything alone.

I should hope your mother was conscious of the bills and food shopping, as is everyone else on the planet - she doesn't deserve a medal for it.

I can't be bothered to go through them and find them out, but it's just the vibe I get from you. I agree with some of what you say but you seem very militant in women cannot be feminine and women MUST do x, which ironically, is just like the patriarchy you're supposed to be fighting

Different circumstances, different children, different people. I don't think you can say a job is objectively harder than the other, but this thread is in response to the criticism stay at home mums get, from people like you

I can't be bothered to go through them and find them out, but it's just the vibe I get from you. I agree with some of what you say but you seem very militant in women cannot be feminine and women MUST do x, which ironically, is just like the patriarchy you're supposed to be fighting

Different circumstances, different children, different people. I don't think you can say a job is objectively harder than the other, but this thread is in response to the criticism stay at home mums get, from people like you



It's ridiculous, you're not better than someone because you palm your kids off to a childminder

I could say the same about this thread.

I have never stated anything of the sort, and if you're going to make such accusations then you should at least have some evidence to back them up.

I asked you, in one thread, how you can expect someone who opposes your beliefs to find any credibility in what you say when you choose to follow a lifestyle they believe is the "correct" way for men and women to live.

Then you waffled on yet again about "but it's about choice!!!" and didn't even answer the question.

And actually, I can say that, and with a great deal of confidence.

If being a stay at home mother is a daily battle for some people, I highly suggest they try their hand at trying to juggle it with other responsibilities and see how difficult life is then.

As I said, I'm not criticising them. But I won't praise them either, especially when they're calling it "the hardest job in the world."

The thread is titled Stay at home mums have the hardest job and here's why. Which is a pretty ridiculous.

I wasn't aware I posted something guffaw worthy in my previous response to you but while we are on the subject of amusement inducing statements I'd like to point out that you've completely evaded the various points I've addressed in my previous post by making sensationalist comments which is only proof that your witts are spent.

Having said that, I did not claim that being conscious of the bills and food shopping deserves a medal however you, yourself claimed that stay-at-home parents don't need to be conscious of household income and spending - something which you've just contradicted.

This video wasn't funny when you posted it the first time and it sure as hell isn't funny now.

The thread is titled Stay at home mums have the hardest job and here's why. Which is a pretty ridiculous.

Many of you ridiculed me for a recent thread I made where I mentioned that being a housewife and full time mum was hard.

Here's a video to prove it.

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