Why do women feel the need to sexualise themselves in public?

I can't stop you from doing so.

But I can tell you that regardless of whether you do or not, you shouldn't feel that because of your position as a male in society and your sexual objectification (???) you have a say on our clothing because showing cleavage is too sexy for you and you want us to save that for our future boyfriends/husbands/.

If you don't want us telling you to stop objectifying us, then you, yourself, should stop telling US what to do whether it be wearing short skirts or having an opinion that doesn't agree with yours (as you say, "complaining".

I'm curious, do you think that your opinion is the only correct one, or do you accept that different people have different standards?

Because I can understand if you were brought up to believe that women who show skin are "lesser" or not classy, but that opinion is no more justified than anyone else's, and doesn't make you an authority.

Oh look, another woman who forgets that we are living creatures and not robots. Parts of all animals are sexual so stop being in denial about it. If you dress as a goth and are mistaken for one, then that is your fault. The same goes for dressing like a slag. How about you put some effort in and dress with style and sophistication.

So stop dumping your insecurities on men rather than taking responsibility for your actions as the real question is what OP said, why are women dressing like slags nowadays? Why can't they dress with style or sophistication?

Get on your way? When did stripper heels and super tight clothes help with that? Don't kid yourself.

Can you actually see what you've just said? You're acting like a spoilt brat who doesn't like being told what to do. Get your head out of your a** and start realising that just because you can do something, it doesn't mean you should and it doesn't make it right.

Saying that a women is not worthy of being treated like a human being if she wears a short skirt is most certainly misogyny.

You are absolutely disgusting and a sad excuse for a human being. I pity any women who come your way, you don't deserve any.

We can tell you what to do, it's up to you to listen or shut your ears off.

The fact that you are here complaining about men telling women x or y, illustrates that you actually (perhaps sub-consciously) care what men think of you when they look at your attire.

Then by that theory, can't I tell you what to do as well? To which you told me that I can't do so by any means and that I shouldn't "dare start ****ing complaining...". Why is that so? Can you simply not shut your ears off? Or is it so preposterous to take on a view that doesn't objectify women?

No, but I would like to think or see the majority have similar views to me.
Yes I was, and I want to keep that way of thinking to be alive.

Then by that theory, can't I tell you what to do as well? To which you told me that I can't do so by any means and that I shouldn't "dare start ****ing complaining...". Why is that so? Can you simply not shut your ears off? Or is it so preposterous to take on a view that doesn't objectify women?

And your second statement is very poorly founded. Rather than conclude I care about what men think (which you may believe possibly because you think that is all a woman should/has the capacity to care about and it is so unbelievably impossible for a woman to actually want social justice/equality and have a POV that doesn't surround the idea of having to please a man), why not see that I care about my fellow women, the social equality of women, and eradicating the patriarchal and misogynistic views which have no place in today's society.

most other men think women wearing revealing clothing can be attractive if done right (I.e not some fat 20 stone girl with rolls of fat sticking out) me included the female body is beautiful and not something that needs to be hidden away. So what gives you the right to judge and criticise what women do with their own body, more and more people are being sexually liberated these days since religion plays a smaller and smaller part in our life, people don't regard sex as a massive deal anymore it's fun and exciting so why shouldn't young men and women have sex with each other without being judged. Males and Females trying to attract each other's attention is about as old fashioned and as natural as it gets.

It seems you're being rather petty. The fact is that you are trying to tell men to not objectify women. I'm saying we can do whatever the **** we like.



Perhaps if you gave less of a **** instead of trying to highlight it in every breath that you blow, society would be less patriarchal and misogynistic.

To be accepted as an equal to a man, you have to almost become a man. That is why rocker chicks and those who are aggressive in their manners seem to command respect, although grudgingly.

Acting demure and trying to keep your femininity whilst complaining about equal rights, or lack thereof, will only result in more misogyny.

It seems you're being rather petty. The fact is that you are trying to tell men to not objectify women. I'm saying we can do whatever the **** we like.



Perhaps if you gave less of a **** instead of trying to highlight it in every breath that you blow, society would be less patriarchal and misogynistic.

To be accepted as an equal to a man, you have to almost become a man. That is why rocker chicks and those who are aggressive in their manners seem to command respect, although grudgingly.

Acting demure and trying to keep your femininity whilst complaining about equal rights, or lack thereof, will only result in more misogyny.

Seeing a visible thong is most upsetting.
And you can imagine the average woman not having nice skin, toned body etc, so why display anymore then you need to?

Make me a sandwich.

Rather than call me petty why not answer the question? Can I not "do whatever the the **** I like?" If not, why not?

You really should get used to making your own as it seems you're highly likely to end up dying alone. Sorry buddy.

I just like to opress you.