I have 2 complaints tonight:
Firstly yes men are not owed sex by women [see Robert Glover 'Nice Guy' complex] I agree with this.
HOWEVER why do a lot of women feel they are owed something by men? In particular I notice that the current generation blames the men of this generation for the ****-ups and abuses of our misogynist forefathers. This is the logic behind 'check your privilege' which prevents men's rights being discussed. I should note not all MRA discussions are valid, but there are plenty which are.
Secondly, can we please quit it with the 'omg you must be a turbo-virgin' response. This is a feminist shaming tactic to silence men especially MRAs. The problem is not only that it is an ad hom, but it inadvertently reinforces the slut/stud double standard by putting men obtaining sex on a pedestal, calling virgins 'losers' and so forth. Why is loss of virginity in a man a sign of superiority to those who have not, yet women who either have many sexual partners, or choose to remain celibate, are treated equally? Surely we should work to deconstruct both so that women can sleep around and men can remain virgins without society invalidating their worth?
I am tiring of participating heavily in these debates but I can tell you that in the past 2 years I have been on TSR and the Internet I have become disillusioned to Feminism in the UK. A movement which I fully supported turns out to have contributed to various problems in my life including the way my dad was treated in the divorce. I have spoken multiple times on the problem of 'man up' and a Facebook friend part of the Fem-Soc of my former uni slated a man discussing the problems he faced in society as a man (not once did he bash women or feminism, only his criticism of society).
I only asked that both genders would be allowed to emancipate themselves from a repressive hetero-normative culture, yet the situation is one-sided. We were promised change even in the 90s, and things are only getting worse.
So last night I swallowed the Red Pill (not the abuse part, I could never do that, but the issues of men's rights and reinforcement of 'hetero-normative' culture to work against men certainly.) The fact is there is some fabulous material on there regarding self-improvement and it explains various imposed social and cultural norms, how to use these to your advantage. I am well aware of multiple personality defects I have which make me unattractive and yes this is my responsibility to amend.
The reason I'm entrenched in it after all is just a bi-product of severe blatantly obvious social anxiety.
Still the issues it raises are enlightening and harrowing.
Day One TSR.
If someone can direct me to some sources on what feminism is doing in the UK and USA to make society more equal without ****ting on men then be my guest, but my mind is currently made up. I will continue to support the issues worth addressing such as the need for feminism in the Middle East and Asia, as far as I can see the West is now ruled by the pursuit of money, power and sex.