Hello everyone.
I think I may have tokophobia (fear of pregnancy/childbirth), mainly in relation to childbirth. I'm an 18-year-old female and do not currently have any children. I don't think I can quite convey it with words, but I'll give it a go. I am absolutely repulsed by childbirth - the humiliation, indignity, vulnerability and lack of control I perceive an individual giving birth experiences absolutely sickens me. I saw something relating to childbirth on TV a few nights ago and I was repulsed and ended up being so anxious that I didn't know what to do with myself. I don't actually worry about giving birth per se (oddly enough), but rather about the fact that other people (friends, family, etc.) will know about the humiliation and pain and indignity I experienced whilst giving birth. When I see an individual giving birth, e.g. on TV, I immediately relate it to myself and feel humiliated on behalf of said individual. Even looking at the word 'birth' makes me feel repulsed.
I'm not sure why I feel this way, but it's making me incredibly anxious, to the point that sometimes I almost resent the fact that I'm female. Having said all that, my partner and I would both like to have children in the future, and I plan to apply for medicine (and obviously I'd be likely to encounter childbirth in lectures, placements, etc., which terrifies me). I don't know what to do. This has been an ongoing issue for a while now. I also have pretty severe OCD, I'm generally quite an anxious person, and I had a similar fear in the past (I was terrified of sex education lessons and had similar feelings to those I have about this issue).
Does anybody have any advice? I've seen several clinical psychologists, etc. in the past, but nothing really seems to work in terms of conquering my mental health problems. Thanks in advance!
P.S. Please don't give any 'it's natural'/'your body is designed for it' sorts of responses.