I'm a guy.
When I was 13, I used to hang around with this girl a couple doors down from me. She was 16. We were friends and hung around playing our games consoles etc together. One day, she asked me to show her my privates, and I obliged as I didn't really understand what was going on.
She then showed me hers, and got me to touch her there. From then on, for about a year or two, she used to get to me to go round hers when she was home alone, and we'd play console games then she'd kiss me and get me to 'play' with her. She'd try and play with me too but, I was such a young age that i couldn't even get erections yet, and she was trying to get it erected so we could have sex.
I did eventually mention it to someone, and the police got involved but, nothing came of it.
Anyway, I'm now 24, and as a result, any relationship I have or attempt to have with a girl, finishes pretty soon because of, I believe, what happened to me in the past.
I don't trust anyone, I physically don't want to get that close to them, and I just feel it is damaging my future and any potential relationships I may have.
I haven't spoken about these incidents for around 8 years now, but they still stick in my mind no matter how hard I try to forget them.
I want advice when it comes to relationships with girls - as I don't want to spend my life single due to this.