I have auditory processing disorder. I've been struggling with deciding whether to alert my university and get aid for it. I had aid in school, but resented having extra time for my exams and embarrassed by using an ALD. The APD is a result of being severely hard of heaving as an infant and young child. But I'm not hard of hearing anymore. I'm within normal hearing ranges.
There was a lot of help offered in school that made me stand out and seen as different. I don't want to stand out. I just want to sit at the front of the classroom and I want the teacher to make a point of facing the audience while they speak so I can follow their lips. At school, I wasn't given a choice. The occupational therapist told them what I "needed" and that was that. I couldn't take my exams with my classmates. I was sent to join the special education students for an extended exam. I was outfitted with ALD for classes with teachers that were technology challenged, rendering it a device there to make me stand out. Not helping me.
If I could have some say in what assistance I get, I'd would definitely get help. I don't want or need extra time on my exams and tests. I can do them in the same time as everyone else. I'm a fast reader and I don't have anymore problems writing than other people. I only struggle with oral presentations. Previous experience makes me reluctant to seek help.