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Why do some girls have such an issue with porn?

My question is, why do SO many girls have a massive issue with porn, or stop their boyfriends from watching it?

I always hear girls say how it's 'disgusting' or 'unrealistic' well yes it is unrealistic on some cases, but where is the harm? You watch it and it's done. It's next to impossible that you will ever meet the people in the video.

My question is to the girls who have an issue with it, why is it so bad in your eyes? What is the harm?


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I don't understand that either, why should porn have to be realistic? It's just something to masturbate to, most normal people have no problem distinguishing between reality and fantasy.
Original post by elliemayxo
My question is, why do SO many girls have a massive issue with porn, or stop their boyfriends from watching it?

I always hear girls say how it's 'disgusting' or 'unrealistic' well yes it is unrealistic on some cases, but where is the harm? You watch it and it's done. It's next to impossible that you will ever meet the people in the video.

My question is to the girls who have an issue with it, why is it so bad in your eyes? What is the harm?


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Because those girls have issues upon themselves. They suffer from some type of security and have to overcompensate by being prude.
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Original post by Tailored_Suit
I don't understand that either, why should porn have to be realistic? It's just something to masturbate to, most normal people have no problem distinguishing between reality and fantasy.


Exactly. Most films & soaps aren't realistic, but people still watch them.


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surely its just trust issues? or jealousy? :dontknow:
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[QUOTE=elliemayxo;59752221]My question is, why do SO many girls have a massive issue with porn, or stop their boyfriends from watching it?

I always hear girls say how it's 'disgusting' or 'unrealistic' well yes it is unrealistic on some cases, but where is the harm? You watch it and it's done. It's next to impossible that you will ever meet the people in the video.

My question is to the girls who have an issue with it, why is it so bad in your eyes? What is the harm?


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Well to be honest a lot of it is pretty vile. This said I don't think it should be blown out of proportion if your boyfriend is a normal loving guy as opposed to a sado-masocistic fiend
I imagine it's mostly jealously. She's meant to be "your girl" so she doesn't like the idea of you going out of your way to look at other nude women, which is essentially what a male is doing when he's watching porn...

But even then... I don't think it's that big of a deal. I wouldn't mind my girlfriend going out of her way to google a quick nude of a sexy male who she never knew had nude pictures :wink:

Or watch porn of any sort for that matter... Except really ****ing weird ****... But let's not go there...
I'm a girl. I watch porn. My boyfriend has an issue with that. I don't care. I still watch porn.


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Original post by Tailored_Suit
This mentality is idiotic. Do people think that you suddenly go blind when in a relationship? You're still going to find other people hot and possibly masturbate over them.


Agreed...
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Original post by TorpidPhil
I imagine it's mostly jealously. She's meant to be "your girl" so she doesn't like the idea of you going out of your way to look at other nude women, which is essentially what a male is doing when he's watching porn...

But even then... I don't think it's that big of a deal. I wouldn't mind my girlfriend going out of her way to google a quick nude of a sexy male who she never knew had nude pictures :wink:

Or watch porn of any sort for that matter... Except really ****ing weird ****... But let's not go there...


But come on, a guy is allowed to look. And vice versa. We live in a world where there's hot people wherever we look, and we have eyes !.

Yep, there is some weird stuff out there. But whatever you're into I guess :smile:


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Original post by lucozade_head
I'm a girl. I watch porn. My boyfriend has an issue with that. I don't care. I still watch porn.


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Good for you !


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Either because they are insecure. Or because they see porn, and viewing porn as immoral.
Original post by elliemayxo
My question is, why do SO many girls have a massive issue with porn, or stop their boyfriends from watching it?

I always hear girls say how it's 'disgusting' or 'unrealistic' well yes it is unrealistic on some cases, but where is the harm? You watch it and it's done. It's next to impossible that you will ever meet the people in the video.

My question is to the girls who have an issue with it, why is it so bad in your eyes? What is the harm?


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Because they are sluts and whores! Much better to go sleep with some guy you have just met from a club every weekend teehee xoxo
Not a clue. New boyfriend is looking forward to watching some together hah. Maybe more people should try that.
Original post by Betelgeuse-
Because they are sluts and whores! Much better to go sleep with some guy you have just met from a club every weekend teehee xoxo


I hope you're joking


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Original post by TheTipsyTarsier
Not a clue. New boyfriend is looking forward to watching some together hah. Maybe more people should try that.


Very open minded of you.


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Original post by elliemayxo
I hope you're joking


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No Porn is DISGUSTING. WOMEN DEMEANING THEMSELVES BY DOING WHAT THEY WANT
I find it hilarious when girls complain about their boyfriend watching porn - 0% chance of meeting the girls in the porno's. at least he ain't exchanging nudes with some other lass. haha.
Insecurity plus trust issues one would presume.
Original post by samina_ay
I find it hilarious when girls complain about their boyfriend watching porn - 0% chance of meeting the girls in the porno's. at least he ain't exchanging nudes with some other lass. haha.


Exactly


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