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Please send a positive message to the victim of a race hate campaign.

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Original post by londonmyst
I've been trying to figure that out since she left uni. :confused:
There are so many things that don't add up.
She hasn't got any friends left.
The violence and nasty lies means nobody wants to know her.

She's not on the electoral register and never posts selfies.
At uni, her info was always being leaked.
Her flatmate persuaded her that her tablet and software on her iphone could get her number traced.
Her pay monthly contract was cancelled and she's changed her phone number more than 3 times since abandoning 4G tech.
I bought the last two payg sims myself and she only found out the numbers when she registered the sim card.

Yeah this definitely weird; apart from yourself who else has or had her new numbers? Either someone around her must hate her and be leaking her information or her phone is tapped; in which case she needs to chuck it and get new hardware entirely
My friend who flatshares with her, the estate agents, her bank, trade union, feminist groups, justeat & hungryhouse.
She's had two new non-internet phones in the last year.
I'm going to give her my spare nokia 3410 this evening.
Original post by Student-95
What race is she?

Mixed race.
Her father was born in india during ww2 and her mother is english.
*hugs*
Original post by londonmyst
My friend who flatshares with her, the estate agents, her bank, trade union, feminist groups, justeat & hungryhouse.
She's had two new non-internet phones in the last year.
I'm going to give her my spare nokia 3410 this evening.


Even weirder; I can’t imagine the organisations or the bank being the culprit due to data protection laws so the most likely possibility is her Flatmate
You're a strong person and you WILL get through this. People will try to stomp on you and bring you down but it'll be fruitless because you know why? You're worth more than their petty words. You're more mature than a bunch of idiots. You're stronger than you know. :heart:

@londonmyst can we also just give you a shoutout for being such a good friend? :cry: :cube:
Original post by Aaryra
Ngl whenever someone hurls a racial slur at me now I really don’t care. Not really advice, especially cause your mate has had a much worse experience.

To your mate, tell her to try not to become ‘guarded’. It’s easy to hate on white people, but a lot of them aren’t racist and would stick up against racism. It’s a terrible thing to go through, but if she’s strong enough to accept it for 4 years she will inshAllah be able to endure it for longer.

Thanks for your kind words. :smile:
I'll be sure to remind her that hate criminals come in all different guises and backgrounds.

It's awful that racist scumbags are targeting you for verbal abuse too.
Have you filed police reports?

If you've got the culprit/s name, photo or know where to find footage of the hate crime- a visit from the police can often lead to them being arrested on other charges like illegal drug possession/driving without insurance.
These show up on criminal record searches and can result in offenders being fired from well paid jobs, even if they don't go to prison.
Disgusting that anyone thinks this is an acceptable way to behave- I hope your friend's situation is resolved soon. Probably best to remember that racists tend to be pathetic losers with nothing else to be proud of who use their hatred of others as a cover for their own inadequacy. I'm mixed black Caribbean/ white British & feel lucky I haven't suffered from much racism, but I remember the last person to give me racial abuse in the street was a complete waster in a scruffy grey tracksuit, drinking a can of Special Brew at about 11 o'clock in the morning- says it all really. I think this meme sums it up well.
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Thank you TSR users!
I have passed on all your positive messages to my friend's flatmate.
You've helped her to smile again for the first time in months. :smile:
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Original post by londonmyst
My friend who flatshares with her, the estate agents, her bank, trade union, feminist groups, justeat & hungryhouse.
She's had two new non-internet phones in the last year.
I'm going to give her my spare nokia 3410 this evening.


trade union/feminist groups sometimes have some angry people in them and they can turn on people because they don't agree with something she said.
Original post by looloo2134
trade union/feminist groups sometimes have some angry people in them and they can turn on people because they don't agree with something she said.

True.
My parents are hardcore trade union revolutionary socialists.
A few users have asked me to upload some photos and screenshots to prove that my friend's flatmate is based in London and the race hate campaign has been reported to the police.

I am uploading redacted photos, scans and screenshots to comply with TSR policy on not publicly disclosing contact information.
To comply with TSR policy, I have also had to redact photos of the race hate graffiti daubed inside the home of my friend and her flatmate by hate criminal trespassers.
I will include a trigger warning with the race hate graffiti.
These images have been redacted on the advice of TSR mods but the race slurs are still easy to comprehend.
TRIGGER WARNING-
This race hate graffiti was created by hate criminals to intimidate and racially abuse a female whose father was born in India.


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Original post by londonmyst
TRIGGER WARNING-
This race hate graffiti was created by hate criminals to intimidate and racially abuse a female whose father was born in India.


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Honestly I wouldn’t go this far. A lot of users already know you are trustworthy and I don’t see why you would lie about something like this. I hope you and your flatmate is able to live more comfortably now. Pay no mind to the racial abuse, those who participate are probably more scared than their victims seeing how far they are willing to go to do this. I hope their hateful campaign falls apart.
Here is a photo of the criminal damage wreaked upon the front door of my friend's home last year.


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Original post by londonmyst
This afternoon my friend's flatmate was racially abused and violently attacked in her own home by a trespasser. Her injuries are not life threatening or very painful. But this incident marks an escalation in a vicious hate campaign that began on campus in November 2015.

She is being targeted for verbal abuse, violence and harassment because her parents have different skin colours. She has suffered nearly four years of: abusive phone calls, race slurs yelled in her face, stalking, deliberate acts of violence and saliva spat in her face & hair.
The harassment has been constant, as have the slanderous lies about both her and her family.

Over the last 18 months, the hate campaign has been brought to my friend's front door.
Attempts to climb inside the flat, vandalism of property, and noise nuisance at night.
Police references numbers have been issued for incidents involving: trespass, criminal damage to her home, threats to kill, threatening messages and malicious communications.

The perpetrators of the race hate campaign have utterly terrorised the victim; completely broken her spirit and devastated every aspect of her life.

It would be amazing if some members of the TSR community could write a brief message to a young woman who has reached rock bottom and remind her that there is always hope that life will get better. I will print out all positive messages and get them too her.


I'm sorry I'm really late, if I'd seen this earlier I'd have posted.

It's horrific that this has happened to you in this supposedly civilized country. I know there isn't a lot that can be said that can fix what has happened, but I can certainly try. These acts have been done with the deliberate intent of bringing you down, of trying to ruin your life. Giving in will only be admitting to the perpetrators that they've won. I understand that neither myself or many of the people here probably understand what you're going through, or how what I'm about to say is to do, but you must remain strong, and look to a better future. You're life will get better, you can leave these disgusting human beings behind you and move on in life. You have a future, whether you believe it now or not. Life will get better, remember that. You cannot let these people ruin the wonderful potential of your life. Good luck.
Here is a copy of a letter sent by the Metropolitan Police in September 2018.


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@londonmyst you're a great friend by the way, doing this for her, she is lucky to know you :smile:.
Original post by Professional G
Honestly I wouldn’t go this far. A lot of users already know you are trustworthy and I don’t see why you would lie about something like this. I hope you and your flatmate is able to live more comfortably now. Pay no mind to the racial abuse, those who participate are probably more scared than their victims seeing how far they are willing to go to do this. I hope their hateful campaign falls apart.

It's fine for people to want to see proof.
Many Londoners just don't want to believe that a race hate campaign of this severity can occur in London.
Let alone continue, year after year.

I took these photos but they are not of my home.
I live alone.

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