I'll try to keep this short so people actually read it, but I've been doing a lot of research and looking into this for over a year now and think I may have ADHD, and to a quite bad degree. Though it seems I am inattentive presenting, meaning I don't appear as the typical "ADHD kid" people expect to see; I don't really talk, I'm always zoned out and just keep to myself. I wanted to wait until I was 18 so I could get myself help but it has been getting worse recently and has been taking a big toll on my relationships, school work and mental health and I'm so exhausted.
I come from both a middle eastern and a religious/somewhat traditional background where having a mental illness brings shame on the family. I have tried to bring this up to my mom before and was met with her calling me a liar and that I was making this up. She is nice to me, she's been trying to get me a psychologist to talk to, yet she won't accept the idea of me having any actual conditions that cause the problems I'd be seeing a psychologist for?
She does not want me to see a doctor or get diagnosed because she thinks it will put me at a disadvantage in the future. I want to become a doctor, and denying someone a job because of mental health conditions is illegal- she doesn't listen.
How do I bring this up to her?