Has my boyf been watching porn? Again??

hear hear

as I said, EVERY SINGLE GUY always thinks, so even if no porn, he occasionally thinks of ****ing another girl

we just like variety

Chill out srsly. You are acting like he's cheated on you or something, it's only porn.

He's watching porn because you aren't satisfying him, he isn't the problem, you are. You are being far too controlling, if you were my gf, I would finish with you right now.

Wow, the line in bold makes me wonder if you are a borderline psycho.

This is another example of disgusting values held for the value of porn... and watch for the contradiction...

In one breath you say it's a guy's given right, and a girl's best interest to assume he's gonna watch porn and masturbate at some point. Unconditionally innate desire/need.

In another breath you say the girlfriend is not pleasing her man enough, and that's why he turns to porn. So it's all her fault....

Something's not adding up here... If your partner doesn't want you watching porn, and you agree not to do it in the future.. but you do - NO BUTS - you have lied to and betrayed your partner's trust. YOU. Not them, not porn, YOU. It is never the partner not watching porn's responsibility to keep you 'satisfied' so you don't 'revert' back to porn. That's pathetic if you need this to happen in order for you to love and respect someone enough to use your own morale and intelligence to quit watching porn.

Wooohoooo lets all stare at people having sex, it's soooo cool.

Sorry but if he was actually doing that in real life it would be pretty sick; what's the difference because it's on a screen -.-

Why have an agreement to not watch porn in the first place? It really doesn't do that much harm unless you let it...

Women, they just don't get it...

We both tried continuing watching porn just like when we were single, but we both felt inadequate and insecure, purely because our other half was seeking pleasure and satisfaction elsewhere.. why not with each other, was that really not enough???
Having spoken to many of my female friends and some male on the subject, they agree if i or my partner think it's disrespectful or makes us feel inadequate... then there's no reason to continue watching porn... it made the most sense.

Women, they just don't get it...

The need for porn should NOT come before love, compassion, trust, real intimacy and just respecting your loved ones wishes or mutual decisions you both agree to.

Porn is NOT and will never be THAT important. So ladies, stand your ground - stick up to your man and demand respect if it displeases you that he watches porn. It may take a while for a guy to accept you don't like it or approve of it, but you WILL find a guy who you respect your wishes and love you for all that you are and believe in. Don't give up hope just because of the porn addicts on here saying it's guy's right and innate urge to watch porn.. it isn't.. and you deserve better!

It's like virtual cheating

Okay, a lot of you probably don't have an issue with porn being watched in your relationships, but in mine I do, due to other insecurities, but I'm not going to go into that, I just need a little help from someone?
Right, well like a month ago now I guess, I found some pages from a site in his history (before you ask, no i wasn't snooping, I was looking for some info on a holiday we have looked at earlier that week). When I saw it I felt sick, and it really got to me, he promised he wouldn't do it again, I trusted him. But here's the thing, on a site, you have to confirm you are over 18 to enter this site right? As I tried it on my laptop, and I know when I went on it his I didn't have to confirm I was 18 as he already had. On mine I confirmed I was over 18 too. Anyways, a few weeks later all his previous history had gone off of his laptop and it only showed up to a week ago. The same with mine, but this time when I tried to go on a site from my laptop it asked me once again if I was 18, however when I tried on his, I didn't have to confirm anything, It just took me straight to the main page, does this mean he's been on it and just deleted the history? You'll probably think I'm looking into it too far, but I don't want him to think he can get away with going behind my back... Can anyone explain? Guys? If you use the site, what happens for you?

PLUS: it's never 'just porn'... WAY too many people assume it's harmless. It isn't.

Your not going to find a boy who doesn’t like watching porn so your going to have to get over you insecurity… I don’t see it as a problem theses girls in these films are just a fantasy world, so what if he wants to visit there ever so often