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Original post by Johann von Gauss
Should we shame male 'sluts'?
Discuss.
Discuss.
We shouldn't shame males or females with what they choose to do with their body.
Men - Casual and random sex for a man is an act of skill, perseverance, and a little bit of luck. There are certain standards we as men must meet and conditions we must operate under in order to get into your panties. First, we have to have confidence to approach you and face the stacked odds that you’ll ignore us, nicely say no, or tell us to **** off because we’re not your type. Some chicks like pretty, blue eyed white guys, others like tatted up bad boys, while others hate their fathers enough to date a man of a different race. If we’re not the right type for you, we’re **** out of luck.
Women - “It’s easy for ya’ll [to turn down sex], every woman in here since you were 13, every guy you’ve met has been trying to **** ya.” The truth is that it requires absolutely no skill whatsoever on a chicks part to get a dick to fill her up. Unless she’s an absolute behemoth of a woman with a ****ed up face, most of you ladies, if you truly wanted to, can look through your current contacts and find a dozen guys willing to **** you tonight. Or you can just go to the bar, wear a cute little outfit, and make seductive little faces that convey how much you want a cock up in your guts.
(http://thoughtcatalog.com/raul-felix/2014/02/skill-vs-serendipity-why-men-are-studs-and-women-are-sluts/)
Women - “It’s easy for ya’ll [to turn down sex], every woman in here since you were 13, every guy you’ve met has been trying to **** ya.” The truth is that it requires absolutely no skill whatsoever on a chicks part to get a dick to fill her up. Unless she’s an absolute behemoth of a woman with a ****ed up face, most of you ladies, if you truly wanted to, can look through your current contacts and find a dozen guys willing to **** you tonight. Or you can just go to the bar, wear a cute little outfit, and make seductive little faces that convey how much you want a cock up in your guts.
(http://thoughtcatalog.com/raul-felix/2014/02/skill-vs-serendipity-why-men-are-studs-and-women-are-sluts/)
Slut shaming whether it the said person is male/female is wrong.
It's none of your business what they get up to.
Although if you're a home-wrecker...that's a different story.
It's none of your business what they get up to.
Although if you're a home-wrecker...that's a different story.
Original post by Andrew657Thomas
Women - “It’s easy for ya’ll [to turn down sex], every woman in here since you were 13, every guy you’ve met has been trying to **** ya.” The truth is that it requires absolutely no skill whatsoever on a chicks part to get a dick to fill her up. Unless she’s an absolute behemoth of a woman with a ****ed up face, most of you ladies, if you truly wanted to, can look through your current contacts and find a dozen guys willing to **** you tonight. Or you can just go to the bar, wear a cute little outfit, and make seductive little faces that convey how much you want a cock up in your guts.
What a load of abject nonsense.
If you're a half-way decent looking man, getting laid is about as hard as falling off a rock.
Original post by NaTaLiiA513
Slut shaming whether it the said person is male/female is wrong.
It's none of your business what they get up to.
Although if you're a home-wrecker...that's a different story.
It's none of your business what they get up to.
Although if you're a home-wrecker...that's a different story.
Even from an Islamic point of view?
Original post by stargirl63
We shouldn't shame males or females with what they choose to do with their body.
What about smoking, rape and drugs
Sure. Though, as I stated in the other thread, I've no idea why the term 'slut' should be deemed a pejorative.
But just to dampen another widely held perspective within gender feminist circles, women engage just as readily in slut shaming, and with as much frequency, as men do. http://time.com/107228/women-misogyny-twitter-study-demos/
But just to dampen another widely held perspective within gender feminist circles, women engage just as readily in slut shaming, and with as much frequency, as men do. http://time.com/107228/women-misogyny-twitter-study-demos/
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Original post by Schrödingers Cat
Even from an Islamic point of view?
What about smoking, rape and drugs
What about smoking, rape and drugs
Sleeping with a number of people, as long as there is safe sex involved - it's not hurting anybody. Whereas those instances which you said above is hurting someone, themselves or other people.
Either way shaming doesn't work. We should help them and support them to quit and better their lives, shaming doesn't do much besides put people down. And if you're into drugs (especially the harder drugs), you're already most likely having a low self esteem.
(edited 8 years ago)
Original post by Schrödingers Cat
Even from an Islamic point of view?
In Islam gossiping is frowned upon.
It's also haram to expose other people's sins (it's also another form of gossip, in a way). We all sin, we're human.
O you who believe! Avoid much suspicions, indeed some suspicions are sins. And spy not, neither backbite one another. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? You would hate it (so hate backbiting). And fear Allâh. Verily, Allâh is the One Who accepts repentance, Most Merciful.
Those who love (to see) scandal published (and) broadcast among the Believers will have a grievous Penalty in this life and in the Hereafter: Allah knows and ye know not. (Quran, 19-24)
This also applies to Slut Shaming.
I'm not going to mix this thread with Islam any longer. Don't want the Islamophobic Brigade jumping on here and ruining the purpose of the thread.
Original post by TheCitizenAct
Sure. Though, as I stated in the other thread, I've no idea why the term 'slut' should be deemed a pejorative.
But just to dampen another widely held perspective within gender feminist circles, women engage just as readily in slut shaming, and with as much frequency, as men do. http://time.com/107228/women-misogyny-twitter-study-demos/
But just to dampen another widely held perspective within gender feminist circles, women engage just as readily in slut shaming, and with as much frequency, as men do. http://time.com/107228/women-misogyny-twitter-study-demos/
This is, sadly, true. Jealous women often seek to shame or dismiss their more successful sexual competitors.
Original post by K.C
no one needs to be shamed
Some people do, e.g. Rapists, druggies, hipsters, lefties, non-mathematicians
Original post by Johann von Gauss
Some people do, e.g. Rapists, druggies, hipsters, lefties, non-mathematicians
i wish i could rep this post
prsom
omg first time using "prsom"
Original post by Schrödingers Cat
Even from an Islamic point of view?
What about smoking, rape and drugs
What about smoking, rape and drugs
Apply that brain of yours.
Who cares? If they're not cheating on anybody and they're having safe sex, why should you or anybody else care?
So to answer your question, no we should not 'slut shame' people, male or female.
So to answer your question, no we should not 'slut shame' people, male or female.
Original post by Andrew657Thomas
The truth is that it requires absolutely no skill whatsoever on a chicks part to get a dick to fill her up.
Most women won't come from that so trust me, finding a guy who's actually good in bed is haaaaaaaaard.
Besides, the point isn't who gets laid more easily, the point is that women who enjoy sex get shamed for it and men who enjoy sex are just, well, "normal". This goes way back to the times when people believed that women had no sex drive and only slept with their husbands because it was their duty to do so, or whatever ("lie back and think of England", lol).
Finally, if you want women to sleep with you more easily, maybe you should stop calling them sluts for it. Then we wouldn't have the imbalance in pulling difficulty you talked about in the first place.
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