My Flatmate Didn't Know That Sex With A Drunk Girl Is Rape

How can you consent if you're totally drunk??? Let's not forget the Stanford rape case. The victim had no recollection of the event so couldn't have consented.

If you think that having intercourse with a girl when she is drunk rape then you are probably a virgin, lol

But also wouldn't have suffered any mental harm if she hadn't been labelled a victim. I always struggle with that conflict. No doubt that having sex with a girl too incapacitated to make a decision is wrong but part of the reason sexual offences have been seen as worse is to do with the mental harm element. If someone is too drunk to remember they avoid the mental harm and only feel it when they're told their victims


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Yes I agree. Did you read the victim's statement? It must have been horrific for her to be at the hospital and have medical staff examining her body only to then find out she was raped. I think though she/many victims would have an idea that they were raped though (even if they weren't told or found) as she was found with her clothes almost completely removed and sustained internal injuries.

If it was a case of the drink being forced down her neck then fair enough. But as I see if if the intention to get drunk is there and a lady is not really putting up a resistance to the guy or worse still encouraging him, I dont see how on earth that can be rape. Its bad luck, sure but its certainly not rape. Bar club culture is an inherently risk activity anyway that is why the allure is there.

If you think that having intercourse with a girl when she is drunk is rape then you are probably a virgin, lol

Revert to my 1st sentence love

Interesting that this is when you choose to address someone as 'love'. Patronising and aggressive.

Yes I agree. Did you read the victim's statement? It must have been horrific for her to be at the hospital and have medical staff examining her body only to then find out she was raped. I think though she/many victims would have an idea that they were raped though (even if they weren't told or found) as she was found with her clothes almost completely removed and sustained internal injuries.

I know a girl who went through a fairly similar thing except she woke up in her house. Instead of going to the police she chose to put it down to a drunken mistake that she doesn't remember and doesn't look at herself as a victim. I think that view has probably saved her from the mental harm.


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I know a girl who went through a fairly similar thing except she woke up in her house. Instead of going to the police she chose to put it down to a drunken mistake that she doesn't remember and doesn't look at herself as a victim. I think that view has probably saved her from the mental harm.


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Ironically that's probably UCLs worst few departments

There is no such thing as 'taking advantage' of a girl. If a woman makes a voluntary decision to drink (haraam/shirk anyway) then she is fully aware of the consequences of doing so. If one wants to avoid any trouble its quite easy to avoid the pub/club scenario and stay home and study/be pure.

If you think that having intercourse with a girl when she is drunk is rape then you are probably a virgin, lol

I was corrected on this recently actually. The law clearly stipulates it is penetration by a penis, so it's impossible for a woman to rape (ignoring potential non-binary situations which I cba to go into).

Also your second example is a bit extreme, they could easily just spike or otherwise force the man to take viagra. Job done.

He's smart enough to go to UCL yet thinks that if she she goes to a party and gets drunk that automatically means she wants to get ****ed. How does that work?

He's smart enough to go to UCL yet thinks that if she she goes to a party and gets drunk that automatically means she wants to get ****ed. How does that work?