Is this okayy? :/

Personally, I've made a decision to go into a very serious relationship and then marry a guy who is studying medicine like me( Im 16 now but i wish to in the future)

Moving on, there is this guy i met last week and he is really sweet. i am starting to like him, however i am very adamant on marrying a prospective medicine student and he isn't following the medicine route. Is it okay to still date him with the intention of not marrying him. Furthermore, i want to marry while i am still young, since the medicine course is 6 years in total this would mean that i want to preferably get married whilst at uni. In order for that to happen i believe that things would have to end after sixth from ( in 2 years, that's if we even last that long)

So my question is, is it worth going out with him if he is also interested in my with the mindset of ending things within the next 2 years????


Thank you

Personally, I've made a decision to go into a very serious relationship and then marry a guy who is studying medicine like me( Im 16 now but i wish to in the future)

Moving on, there is this guy i met last week and he is really sweet. i am starting to like him, however i am very adamant on marrying a prospective medicine student and he isn't following the medicine route. Is it okay to still date him with the intention of not marrying him. Furthermore, i want to marry while i am still young, since the medicine course is 6 years in total this would mean that i want to preferably get married whilst at uni. In order for that to happen i believe that things would have to end after sixth from ( in 2 years, that's if we even last that long)

So my question is, is it worth going out with him if he is also interested in my with the mindset of ending things within the next 2 years????


Thank you

You seem very closed minded. Why must your partner be a doctor as well? They may understand your profession, yes, but doesn't mean someone who has a different profession can't take interest/learn about what you do.
I wouldn't put yourself in a box straight away as you don't know what your future would hold. It's better to be with someone who makes to you happy rather than just because someone is a doctor. You'll regret it in the future if this doctor husband turns our to be a an a***hole.

Personally, I've made a decision to go into a very serious relationship and then marry a guy who is studying medicine like me( Im 16 now but i wish to in the future)

Moving on, there is this guy i met last week and he is really sweet. i am starting to like him, however i am very adamant on marrying a prospective medicine student and he isn't following the medicine route. Is it okay to still date him with the intention of not marrying him. Furthermore, i want to marry while i am still young, since the medicine course is 6 years in total this would mean that i want to preferably get married whilst at uni. In order for that to happen i believe that things would have to end after sixth from ( in 2 years, that's if we even last that long)

So my question is, is it worth going out with him if he is also interested in my with the mindset of ending things within the next 2 years????

Thank you

What's to say your soulmate is someone who studies medicine? Yes they could have a better understanding of your career than others but that doesn't mean they'd be the right person for you. You wont find the person you are going to marry if you dont give relationships ago, stop over thinking it so much and give things a go with this guy I met my fiance' out of the blue, so i'd say that not planning things and just letting them happen is the way to go.