I've lived in Hull for over 10 years now, and in all honesty, it is a little more racist than the bigger, more cosmopolitan cities. Generally the people are friendly, and as they years go by the population is becoming more mixed, however there is still a nasty undercurrent of racist attitudes and behaviour. The university is pretty open minded, but some of the staff are a nightmare. When I started working on campus I had to go to one of the offices to sort out a card and parking permit. The woman behind the desk was awful. She was abrupt, rude and just generally horrible to talk to. She treated me like I was some refuge, even though I was born in the UK. When I had finished and had to take a seat to wait for the items to be sorted out, the next person she spoke to was a white lady. Completely different attitude, she even cracked a smile.
One time on a bus, some kid was going off, talking about black people, calling us ******* and stuff. I held my tongue, I didn't know what to do. He was sat at the back and everyone could hear him. What did these nice people do?
Stuck their noses into their papers and phones and pretended like they didn't hear anything, or they didn't give a sh**.
I've experienced people staring at me, people moving their children away from me, women shifting their handbags away from me, looking at me then looking away making it so obvious that they are trying not to stare, rudeness, like when I went out for a fancy dress party. I went as Rambo and we hit a few bars and stuff. The number one conversation I had that night was "who are you meant to be?"
"Rambo".
"But Rambo is white", followed by confused looks and questions as to why I didn't dress as a black movie character, like Morpheus. Sometimes I'll strike up a conversation with someone and you can see that they aren't comfortable talking to you, they are just trying to be polite. The next day you see them, all of a sudden they blank you. Don't even get me started on attempts to get to know women i'm attracted too.
The worst was my ex father in law. I was married to a white lady, so obviously her father was white. One time we were driving back from a trip somewhere, he was reading the paper. The discussion turned to Britain's Got Talent. Her mother asked "who got through last night?"
Father in laws response "The ******".