Hello again everyone! I must apologise, it has been an exceedingly long time since I last wrote. I have had a lot on - safe to say you don't get bored as a medic, there's always something to do!
So what have I been doing? Work. More work. A bit more work after that. Going to Christmas Market - one of the best things about Birmingham, I will explain some more. Secret Santa. Trying to get ready for Christmas. Visiting family. Coming HOME! With regards to the work - I'm not even sure why these past few weeks have been busier, I think it might be because we have an exam coming up in January that we needed to revise for as well as keep up with all the new lectures. Safe to say I got even better at procrastinating, and I did no work at all on my birthday (it was on a sunday, I literally spent the day doing nothing. I'm quite good at that!). However, now it is the holidays, and I am revising, but I am also relaxing. Some people are panicking, I know I will soon, but for now I don't see the point in stressing - a little a day is good.
Some people have already stressed. I will say now - please DON'T. It's not sensible, work is important and obviously the exam coming up is important, as is every exam, but at the end of the day people can only do their best and there's no point in stressing over whether your best is good enough; we all got into medical school, therefore our best is good enough. Interesting point to note is that not many people are actually in competition - again, this is good. Competition does not always help. It does in small amounts, perhaps, but at medical school I think it's just easier to bumble along as you are. I'm still very happy, and that has to be a good thing, right?
I have had problems this term. Long distance relationships are insanely difficult. I'm still with my boyfriend, but we've had a lot of struggles this term. These holidays are good because we can see each other again, but it really is weird to think how a bit of distance can affect us so much. I've also had problems in that my Grandad is very ill, so I went down to see him one weekend and obviously there's a lot of concern there. The one thing to realise though is that just because you're not with your family because you're at uni does NOT mean you're alone. My flatmates have been very supportive and everyone in med school has been brilliant. The last day of the holidays everyone was hugging and saying goodbye, and it was weird because if you think about it, we've known each other 3 months and yet we were all really sad to think we wouldn't be seeing each other again most likely for another month. I will be meeting up with some people over these hols, but otherwise everyone's gone home, whether that's in this country or another,and it's not going to be easy to see them. It's a strange feeling, but Birmingham is literally my 2nd home and my friends are my 2nd family!
Next thing. Everyone's been searching for houses. I'm very behind on this, we're looking for houses when we get back, but some people have already signed a contract! It's quite scary, I know nothing about house-hunting, but the uni issues good advice and will check over the contract with us (once we've got one) to make sure there's nothing dodgy. Hopefully that'll go ok *fingers crossed*.
Now, I said I'd talk about the Christmas Market. It's AMAZING. Literally everyone went down there at some point, and I went twice. They had strawberries and grapes dipped in melted milk and white Belgian chocolate... (drooling, they tasted so good) and doughnuts! Fresh doughnuts! We did have an awkward moment when my friend bought a doughnut and dropped it straight on the floor, but the doughnuts are also veeeeeeery tasty. Well worth it. There are loads of handmade gifts (handy for Christmas shopping), as there's a craft bit, and obviously lots of food. Birmingham has so much more to offer than where I'm from... I do miss it!
I will write again soon, feel free to ask any questions and the like, I will tell more about the term soon!