Should i move out for uni

I currently live in a very dysfunctional family and i'm just tired of this house hold after 19 years but i don't know if i can hack (deal) with moving out for uni.
Because of the household i live in, i've had to grow up at an early age but now that i'm 19 i don't actually know how to function like other people my age and i don't know how i will deal with paying rent when i have such little experinece. I'm quite anxious, and introverted and i struggle to make friends so i'm scared as i am not very social, also i'm not interested in clubbing or smoking/drinking which are big part of uni culture. I don't know if i can tolerate uni lifestyle and the responsiblities which i don't understand but its the only way i can leave this toxic household. What should i do? Ps i live in London and my uni is in London too

You should try get a short term lease of you can for a few months. See if the life out vibe is for u. If u hate it then u can move back home.

I tried living out (out of london mind you) for a year and hated it, so when i moved back to london, i commuted to london uni daily whilst living at home, so it was way easier.

I'm not sure if my uni does short term leases

I'm not sure if my uni does short term leases

I currently live in a very dysfunctional family and i'm just tired of this house hold after 19 years but i don't know if i can hack (deal) with moving out for uni.
Because of the household i live in, i've had to grow up at an early age but now that i'm 19 i don't actually know how to function like other people my age and i don't know how i will deal with paying rent when i have such little experinece. I'm quite anxious, and introverted and i struggle to make friends so i'm scared as i am not very social, also i'm not interested in clubbing or smoking/drinking which are big part of uni culture. I don't know if i can tolerate uni lifestyle and the responsiblities which i don't understand but its the only way i can leave this toxic household. What should i do? Ps i live in London and my uni is in London too

Hi there,

I am sorry to hear you are not happy with your home situation. Moving out for university is very daunting and its easy to panic about all the aspects that come with it but remember you are not alone! Lots of students will be feeling the same way and that’s why there’s services to help you with everything.

In terms of paying rent, how much and often will be dependent on your university and accommodation. If your university offers accommodation, you will probably pay in three instalments and will apply through their website. I would recommend googling your university accommodation page or speaking to their finance team.
Here are a few websites on applying to finance and top tips on moving out for the first time.

https://www.gov.uk/apply-for-student-finance
https://www.storefirst.com/storage-news/student-moving-out-guide-stress-free-steps-for-a-smooth-move
https://www.bath.ac.uk/case-studies/tips-time-at-university/
https://www1.chester.ac.uk/news/student-tips-five-bits-advice-new-students-university

I know the reputation of university is party time, but this is absolutely not the case for every student! There are lots of other options university offers which don’t include drinking or clubbing and you should not feel like you must partake in these if they are not your thing. Have a look at your university’s societies guide – they may have some clubs you would be interested in joining which is also a brilliant way of making friends when you first arrive.

The university lifestyle is whatever you want to make it. University is full of a range of students, especially in London so I’m sure you’ll meet the right people to make it your own. Good luck with everything and remember you’re not alone!

- Sophie (uni of Bath)