Hi,
I’m afraid that I’m missing out at uni because my university isn’t what I thought it would be. I’m entering third year now.
When I started university I moved in with my dad because he has a flat in London he goes home every weekend Friday to Monday so I’m home alone for 4 days a week and he’s only in the flat 8pm - 6am which should be amazing.
However I think because of this I haven’t had any flatmates and therefore no friends.
My uni isn’t a normal uni we don’t really have a campus it’s more like a college in London North Greenwich. I don’t think the people who study there are my kind of people I have some friends who I made out of pure luck but they don’t like going out and I only really see them at university lectures (by the way I’m only in 2 days a week for 4 hours). I hear stories from my hometown friends of them going out every night and having some amazing crazy stories with their flatmates.
My university doesn’t have any societies with social events even if I wanted to make friends there. I was going to change unis after a terrible first year but before I left I had a chat with my head of year who promised me things were changing, I for some reason believed him and decided to stay another year it was just as bad and I was longing for more friends the entire time.
I’m now entering third year so I feel it’s too late (now early sept) to change unis. As I met up with my friend from home town and she told me what it was like for her which has made me wish I could change.
I’m trying to make the most of London however whenever I go clubbing (which is rare like once a month) I try to make friends but most of the people who are in the club are like 27 or older I’m 20. Plus I find it hard to find a group of friends in a club the musics loud and everyone is wasted so no one will remember each other in the morning.
I’m going to join random London clubs this year like tennis and snowboarding but I’m slightly scarred from clubbing, my job and uni that I still won’t find a decent friend group.
Anyone got any tips a 20 year old student can make other student friends that don’t go to his uni. Thanks