I know I mentioned this earlier, but I feel the need to have a full-on rant now.
I have absolutely no problem with Ben having friends, but his mate Chris is always always at his flat and when he's there I don't get to speak to Ben cos he takes up all his attention. It seems to me that he just turns up unannounced and Ben either doesn't or can't tell him to leave, and twice his presence has stopped Ben seeing me. Now I've never met this Chris but from what I've heard from both Ben's home and uni friends is that noone really likes him and he's made a lot of enemies for himself. I've also had it implied that Ben can't stand up to him. Chris also smokes a lot of weed, which seems to encourage Ben to do likewise and that annoys me, as before Chris came home from America (his gf lives there) he wasn't really smoking it at all. It sounds a bit silly written down but it's really annoying me, and as he's someone in an LDR surely he'd understand that Ben needs to come and see me. I just feel like he's having a really negative impact on our relationship and I don't like it.