Firstly i'd like to apologise for the late replies as i've been really busy packing and moving back home to do some serious revision.
WOW! Those are excellent grades. I know we have one mech eng student here who got 4 A*s and an A and he finds the work really easy so far. I'll tell you that Bristol are AMAZING for aero and I did get rejected by them as they didn't feel I could get two As and a B last year. I did visit Bristol and it's an amazing city. It's more lively than Southampton, but also more expensive. At the end of the day, what you pay for with any university (talked to some of my friends at other unis doing engineering) is the universities name on your graduation certificate once you graduate. The word's 'University of Southampton' and 'University of Bristol' will NOT close you off to any employer (apart from investment banks who seek oxbridge graduates). Graduate opportunities should be the same AND be amazing.
You have until May I believe to choose, so take your time, maybe revisit the unis to make your decision. My sister does Chemistry at Loughborough and i've visited the place. There is nothing there that Bristol and Southampton cannot offer (in terms of engineering) that Loughborough have. I would definitely say that if I was in your position, I would definitely firm either Southampton or Bristol over Durham or Loughborough.
As for Cambridge, well there's no doubt you should have got an interview. I got AAAB for my AS and got an interview with Downing college, but got rejected unfortunately. You should complain to Cambridge about it, as unless your personal statement was diabolical (as in a person waffled on on how they're better than Cambridge etc. which I doubt anyone would do) there is no reason for them to reject you without an interview.
There's accommodation for everyone at Southampton and it's all reasonably priced. If you want aesthetics in student accommodation, i'd advise applying to Glen Eyre student accommodation in Southampton, but if you want student atmosphere and a lot of block parties, monte is the way to go. You can choose to live in corridors (standard room), or flats of 7 (enhanced room), en suite flats (en suite) or premium rooms which are slightly bigger than en suite rooms. There's also catered option but that's a bit of a rip off. Your rent also includes a year bus pass on unilink buses which are quite good and definitely the best buses in Southampton without a doubt!
Accommodation is good. We get cleaners everyday so the kitchen is always tidy and room inspections once a semester so nothing unreasonable. Reception is open 24/7 and they sign and collect all your post.
I do apologise if I did put you off engineering
, I just wrote how I felt about the university. The university has an excellent tool called blackboard where all lecture notes and supervision sheets are put up for you to revise off and they're actually quite useful and have loads of example questions that you can go through and it'll be easier to understand. Some lecturers are just not good at teaching, but the content is more than enough so if you were to do the course by yourself, you would understand the work.
Simple answer to going to a lower ranked university just because you may find the work easier is NO!
As I said before, you are really only paying for the unis name on your graduate certificate and going to lower ranked unis will simply result in more jobs being closed off to you. It is a good idea to do a foundation year as you have an extra year to adjust to life in Southampton, make friends, and fully understand the basics. For the first semester, the only maths you'll need is plugging values into formulae and rearranging.
Hope that helps. As far as I see it, there is only one uni I would rather be at than Southampton and that is Imperial (childhood dream). Southampton is a great uni, and when everything is taken to account (life at the uni, costs, eduction, facilities etc.), I'd say it's on par with Bristol. I'd rather be here at Southampton than at Cambridge because I know I don't possess the work ethic required to succeed at Cambridge. A friend of mine goes there and says the only advantage is one on one/ one to two tutorials they get.
Hope that helps, and I didn't mean to put anyone off engineering. Sorry about that.