OTA = overly attached girlfriend.
And thanks in advance for the long read...
I'm in my early 20s and in a serious relationship of 2 years.
I hadn't seen my boyfriend, or heard from him for a week. The most I got was a couple of text messages, which are almost always initiated by me. In his defense, he's also been feeling ill this week and if he was up for it, he would've come to see me.
Today I finally persuaded him to call me, and he said he'd do so in 20 mins, but after over an hour, nothing. I texted him and he called.
I didn't pick up straight away because I was annoyed about waiting. When I did, he told me that he changed his work shift to Friday afternoon (when we were meant to meet up) instead of Saturday (a day we can't). I felt so moody that I couldn't bring myself to speak properly so the conversation was awkward and horrible.
What makes it worse is that even when I'm not annoyed, it sometimes feels like we have nothing to say on the phone. Our conversations nowadays last 30 mins tops, whilst he used to speak for hours with his ex.
I wondered if it was because we don't actually have much in common, the spark's died and we're drifting apart. On the way home, I felt like crying on the train. I texted him that I felt like crying. He read the text, (it's whatsapp) and didn't even respond.
So am I being just a really overly attached girl that'll probably end up in a house full of cats if I don't change my evil ways?