I understand the schooling issue, she already speaks some Spanish as we spent a lot of time in Spain when she was younger and she went to a Spanish school for over a year. I wouldn't say she would be torn from friends and family! She is as keen to go abroad as I am for a year and to go to a foreign school, she is excited at the prospect of it and looks at it as a great opportunity for us to experience together.
We are looking at USA as I have quite a lot of family all over there so would try to get some where close to them. She would be 13/14 years old if/when we go and don't think childcare is going to be that big an issue but I'm confident if needed that there will be after school clubs/activities as there are here. But as USA has such a strict financial eligibility etc then Europe may be a better option. I just can't seem to find many people that have done this and there isn't much information around for students with children.