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Why do some girls have such an issue with porn?

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Dont girls statistixally watch more? Ima go check wait
Religious or self-confidence issues.
Original post by Tailored_Suit
No, but why should he have to "cope"? If he's horny and his girlfriend isn't there then he should be able to use porn if he wants to, what's wrong with that?

Actually, by saying he should only release his sexual tension with his girlfriend, it's you who's saying she's only there to fulfil him sexually.


Well if he's horny and can't control himself (decides to receive pleasure from other ladies) then why is he in a committed relationship in the first place?

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Original post by Blue_Mason
The consumers are mostly male so it is not expected to be cater to a woman's needs.


Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha. This is what I mean about porn giving men the wrong idea
Original post by Smilin’ Knight
surely its just trust issues?

But what are they mistrusting about? Idk if that makes sense but like normally if you've got trust issues you'd say, stop them texting other girls or something cuz you're worried they're cheating, stopping them watching porn doesn't do anything to prevent any bad thing happening.....

Does this make sense? I'm trippin balls
Original post by littlenorthernlass
Women don't like it because it's unrealistic


Why do they care about the realism? Does it matter?
Lol, I see.
Original post by TheTipsyTarsier
Not a clue. New boyfriend is looking forward to watching some together hah. Maybe more people should try that.


maybe more people should try it?? what?! and go to hell? no thanks.

ure ust as bad as hitler can't believe you
It's only wrong if it starts causing issues within the relationship. I can understand why a woman would be a little peed off that her bf/husband would want to get his rocks off from watching porn, rather than watching or having fun with her. Personally, if i have a girl who has a healthy libido, i see no reason whatsoever why i should feel the need to watch porn at all. I would get plenty satisfaction from having sex with my girl rather than staring at my laptop, watching two strangers have sex - to me that is very weird. I would always choose the physical intimacy between me and my girl than watching porn.
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I had no idea so many women were ok with letting their other half watch porn :eek:
Original post by m3m
I had no idea so many women were ok with letting their other half watch porn :eek:


Ha I couldn't care less


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Original post by elliemayxo
Ha I couldn't care less


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But why? That is just so disrespectful. Bleugh.
Original post by liquidconfidence
Personally, I don't think it's that major, I can understand why people would prefer if their partner didn't watch it but...it's just porn, guys are going to watch it anyway, in and out of a relationship. Same goes for females really.
With regards to the assumption that it causes unrealistic expectations, I don't really think that exists to the extent that people make out. If you know what your partner looks like body wise and you liked them for how they looked I doubt that watching porn will make you expect more because you are already satisfied with what they have.

The size thing also doesn't make sense, if the majority of guys irl don't have big penises as portrayed in porn then, why are there so many guys in porn who have them :holmes:


A selection process required for the professional videos.

So many people in the programme 'eggheads' are brainy.
In my experience it's because they don't like the idea of other guys "getting off" to images of other naked girls and because they're insecure. They also may link it to erectile dysfunction in the bedroom if they can't keep it up if they don't get turned on when they see a real body. Either way, it's not that deep and if my guy was to watch porn, I couldn't give two hoots. Its a way to let go of that sexual frustration if you're not there, and even if you were, people still masturbate in relationships, get over it. It would only become a problem if they prefer porn over you.

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Original post by Tailored_Suit
But I don't think it's a case of controlling one's self. Most guys could refrain from porn if they wanted to, but there's no need to. Why should he have no choice but to have sex with his girlfriend every time he feels horny? That in itself is a form of absurd slavery. Again, what is wrong with porn?


I think it is a case of controlling oneself. Most guys that I know that watch porn say that they don't want to continue but they can't help it because it is addictive. It therefore must be a case of controlling oneself because one is not in total control if they are addicted.

If I answer that question, it would turn into a whole new debate lol :tongue: if you wanna know the answer, just read some of the responses.

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Original post by elliemayxo
My question is, why do SO many girls have a massive issue with porn, or stop their boyfriends from watching it?

I always hear girls say how it's 'disgusting' or 'unrealistic' well yes it is unrealistic on some cases, but where is the harm? You watch it and it's done. It's next to impossible that you will ever meet the people in the video.

My question is to the girls who have an issue with it, why is it so bad in your eyes? What is the harm?


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The thing is if people especially boys watch porn ,it will make them think of women as objects rather than valuable human beings.Also the fact is that what they see in it,they will apply it to real life and if doesn't go the way the planned it they will be disappointed .
Original post by abc:)
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahaha. This is what I mean about porn giving men the wrong idea


you mean, boys
I don't want my boyfriend getting off to some other girl. That makes me feel like crap and as if I'm not quite doing it enough for him. Also why would any girl want their boyfriend to fantasise over someone else?


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Original post by TheGreatImposter
In my experience it's because they don't like the idea of other guys "getting off" to images of other naked girls and because they're insecure. They also may link it to erectile dysfunction in the bedroom if they can't keep it up if they don't get turned on when they see a real body. Either way, it's not that deep and if my guy was to watch porn, I couldn't give two hoots. Its a way to let go of that sexual frustration if you're not there, and even if you were, people still masturbate in relationships, get over it. It would only become a problem if they prefer porn over you.
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I don't like the thought of my partner getting off from watching another girl - if i'm not good enough then it's too bad, if your in a relationship you should experiment and not expect us women to be sex gods who are perfect - nobody in a realistic world should compare real life sex to porn sex. Not all women react the same way and sometimes we do not have hot, perfect orgasms and we do sometimes slip up
It's not fine by me and I just don't understand why you would want to **** to some random stranger rather than your own girlfriend ?!
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Original post by mizzsnazzter
I don't want my boyfriend getting off to some other girl. That makes me feel like crap and as if I'm not quite doing it enough for him. Also why would any girl want their boyfriend to fantasise over someone else?


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I don't think you understand what porn is. The girls are generally dog ugly. No-one is fantasising over them, trust me.

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