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60 questions to deepen your relationship

60 questions to deepen your relationship

In terms of a romantic partner, it’s wonderful to find someone with whom you can share a comfortable silence. Someone who can sit by your side while you think, or not think. Someone you can just be present with. But, of course, you don’t want comfortable silence all the time. For those moments when you want to get closer through conversation, we’ve gathered a list of 60 illuminating questions to ask a partner in order to get to know them a little better.
Relationship Questions

1. Do you want children?

2. Do you want to get married?

3. What do you think the most important element is in maintaining a relationship?

4. What is the No. 1 thing you look for in a partner?

5. What is your favorite thing to do on a date?

6. What is the most romantic place you’ve ever visited?

7. If you want children, how many children do you want?

8. Have you ever been cheated on?

9. What is the best gift you’ve ever given a partner?

10. What is your favorite love song?

11. What is your favorite date night movie?

12. Would you prefer to cook a romantic dinner, or do the romantic dishes?

13. When do you think is the right time to say “I love you”?

14. Do you think fighting in a relationship is healthy, or do you think it should be avoided?

15. What is something important you’ve learned from another couple?

16. What is a mistake you’ve made in a relationship in the past that you don’t want to repeat?

17. What do you think is your best attribute as a boyfriend?

18. Are you friends with your exes?

19. Have you ever had your heart broken?

20. How can you tell you’re really comfortable with someone?
Fun Questions

21. Do you have any hidden talents?

22. If you could meet one celebrity, who would it be?

23. If you could relive one day in your life, what day would you choose?

24. Would you ever go skydiving?

25. Have you ever been afraid of a ghost?

26. What was your best Halloween costume?

27. What was your favorite school lunch as a kid?

28. What is your favorite Simpsons joke?

29. If you could live inside the world of one TV show, which would you choose?

30. If you have a billion dollars, what do you think your life would be like?

31. What is your favorite scent?

32. What is your favorite outfit?

33. If you could change your name to anything, would you change it, and what would you change it to?

34. If you could suddenly be very good at something without having to put any effort into getting good at it, what would it be?

35. What is a book or movie you’ve always lied about having read or seen?

36. What career do you wish you could have?

37. If you could go to the moon, would you?

38. Do you think aliens exist?

39. Do you think you would do better or worse on the SATs if you had to take them now?

40. What is your favorite meal of all time?

41. What cartoon character do you think is the hottest of all time?

42. What is your most controversial movie-related opinion?

43. Do you think dogs go to heaven?

44. What is the hottest you’ve ever looked?

45. Who do you think is the MVP, LeBron or Giannis?
Dangerous Questions

46. If you could change one thing about me what would it be?

47. Who do you think has it harder: men or women?

48. Who is the most beautiful person you can think of?

49. Can you explain to me the process of menstruation and why it occurs?

50. Can you tell me what accounts for the sun appearing to rise and set?

51. Can you name ten authors who are not men?

52. Do you still text with any of your exes?

53. Have you ever cheated on anyone, and do you feel the phrase “once a cheater, always a cheater” is true or false?

54. How do you feel about Elizabeth Warren and why?

55. What is the best outfit you’ve ever seen me wear?

56. What is the funniest thing I’ve ever said to you?

57. What is your favorite thing about me?

58. Do you think I’m stronger in my career or stronger in my personal life?

59. Would you rather be a stay-at-home parent or a working parent and why?

60. Does the idea of someone having dinner on the table for you every night at 6 p.m. sound good to you? Why or why not?
I strongly suspect I know what my husband's answers for most of these would be.
Original post by ceciliaT
60 questions to deepen your relationship

In terms of a romantic partner, it’s wonderful to find someone with whom you can share a comfortable silence. Someone who can sit by your side while you think, or not think. Someone you can just be present with. But, of course, you don’t want comfortable silence all the time. For those moments when you want to get closer through conversation, we’ve gathered a list of 60 illuminating questions to ask a partner in order to get to know them a little better.
Relationship Questions

1. Do you want children?

2. Do you want to get married?

3. What do you think the most important element is in maintaining a relationship?

4. What is the No. 1 thing you look for in a partner?

5. What is your favorite thing to do on a date?

6. What is the most romantic place you’ve ever visited?

7. If you want children, how many children do you want?

8. Have you ever been cheated on?

9. What is the best gift you’ve ever given a partner?

10. What is your favorite love song?

11. What is your favorite date night movie?

12. Would you prefer to cook a romantic dinner, or do the romantic dishes?

13. When do you think is the right time to say “I love you”?

14. Do you think fighting in a relationship is healthy, or do you think it should be avoided?

15. What is something important you’ve learned from another couple?

16. What is a mistake you’ve made in a relationship in the past that you don’t want to repeat?

17. What do you think is your best attribute as a boyfriend?

18. Are you friends with your exes?

19. Have you ever had your heart broken?

20. How can you tell you’re really comfortable with someone?
Fun Questions

21. Do you have any hidden talents?

22. If you could meet one celebrity, who would it be?

23. If you could relive one day in your life, what day would you choose?

24. Would you ever go skydiving?

25. Have you ever been afraid of a ghost?

26. What was your best Halloween costume?

27. What was your favorite school lunch as a kid?

28. What is your favorite Simpsons joke?

29. If you could live inside the world of one TV show, which would you choose?

30. If you have a billion dollars, what do you think your life would be like?

31. What is your favorite scent?

32. What is your favorite outfit?

33. If you could change your name to anything, would you change it, and what would you change it to?

34. If you could suddenly be very good at something without having to put any effort into getting good at it, what would it be?

35. What is a book or movie you’ve always lied about having read or seen?

36. What career do you wish you could have?

37. If you could go to the moon, would you?

38. Do you think aliens exist?

39. Do you think you would do better or worse on the SATs if you had to take them now?

40. What is your favorite meal of all time?

41. What cartoon character do you think is the hottest of all time?

42. What is your most controversial movie-related opinion?

43. Do you think dogs go to heaven?

44. What is the hottest you’ve ever looked?

45. Who do you think is the MVP, LeBron or Giannis?
Dangerous Questions

46. If you could change one thing about me what would it be?

47. Who do you think has it harder: men or women?

48. Who is the most beautiful person you can think of?

49. Can you explain to me the process of menstruation and why it occurs?

50. Can you tell me what accounts for the sun appearing to rise and set?

51. Can you name ten authors who are not men?

52. Do you still text with any of your exes?

53. Have you ever cheated on anyone, and do you feel the phrase “once a cheater, always a cheater” is true or false?

54. How do you feel about Elizabeth Warren and why?

55. What is the best outfit you’ve ever seen me wear?

56. What is the funniest thing I’ve ever said to you?

57. What is your favorite thing about me?

58. Do you think I’m stronger in my career or stronger in my personal life?

59. Would you rather be a stay-at-home parent or a working parent and why?

60. Does the idea of someone having dinner on the table for you every night at 6 p.m. sound good to you? Why or why not?


1. Do I want children (yes).
2. Do I want to get married yes though it only is conditional to marrying the girl who I have an intention to marry and have always seen my future with.
3. Important element of maintaining a relationship is communication, being there for your significant other so that they know they are able to rely on you when they need you most, understanding two people cannot be together if there’s no relating between both, affection and trust as well as honesty and truth.
4. Number one thing I look for in my partner is just personality.
5. Favourite thing if ever to do on a date would be just to hang out and spend quality valuable time it isn’t as though you’ll see each other 24/7 and every millisecond is just seen as valuable and precious.
6. Nothing as of yet although got a bucket list.
7. That’s for me and my wife to know but 5.
8. Nope never been cheated on.
9. Pandora promise ring 💍 Personalised Birthstone Name Necklace, Initial Anklet, BTS Merchandise and Album.
10. Falling by Trevor Daniels
11. Never had the opportunity to go late night movie sadly :frown:
12. I can cook a romantic dinner and do the dishes why does my significant other need to do any of the other work.
13. When you feel confident enough to express your feelings and you know you want to make the move make your move before you lose your opportunity.
14. Avoided it only adds conflict and stress and as grown mature adults we should know better than to hurt each other or our feelings as we’ll only hurt ourselves.
15. We’ve distinguished that we are perfect in our ways and not to focus on themselves.
16. Not Applicable.
17. Everything about me, I prioritise my significant other she has my attention, care, support and help she remains happy and receives all my affection her health wellbeing and welfare and safety is prioritised and she’s at comfort around me.
18. Not Applicable.
19. No
20. They are happy to like talk deepen things with you, they feel comfort around you.
21. My hidden talent is my desire for technology and my academic side of things.
22. Alisha Lehmann the footballer.
23. The day I’ll marry my significant other or the first day I met her.
24. Depends on Health and Safety.
25. Yes
26. Don’t believe in Halloween and Too Old for that.
27. Pizza chips, Burgers and Chips, Chicken Wrap Chips.
28. No clue…
29. I always wanted to be a Dragon experience myself in that chair and invest in entrepreneurs.
30. If I had a billion dollars I’d donate to charity, give it to my partner and spend it on the education of my kids. As well as live somewhere quite exotic.
31. Hugo Boss, Paco Rabonne, Giorgio Armani, Caroline Herrera, Ralph Lauren.
32. A suit because I look… OOF
33. I wouldn’t change it.
34. Can’t think of anything I’m just perfect
35. Coleen Hoover… It Ends With Us never finished reading it… read like 210 pages but procrastinated ever since
36. I want a career in Information and Communication Technology. I’ve studied ICT and Computing my whole life.
37. I would but I’d go with my partner.
38. We’ll there’s space, astronauts are up there, rockets go up so yes I do think so.
39. I would do beyond my expectations probably don’t know about Maths or Science but definitely English yeah used to remember getting 5a and 6c
40. I like a piece of lamb in pitta bread with Portuguese like sauce. Curry such as Butter Chicken or Chicken Tikka Masala, Lamb Curry or Vegetable with Naan.
41. Unsure
42. Unsure
43. No
44. Depends what you mean but dressing up in a suit with a tie and flower with slip turf black polished shoes 👞 as well as trying various shades and new range of hairstyles
45. LeBron

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