Everyone has worries about going to uni, that's perfectly normal, and chances are, other people have the same concerns as you.
I thought it would be a good idea to have a thread where people could share these concerns, and current uni students can reassure them. Sometimes, just knowing other people have the same concerns as you does help!
Some really common concerns we see on TSR every year include:
- What if my flatmates don't like me? Remember, most people do end up with flatmates they like, or at least can be civil to. In really bad living situations, you can sometimes move flats. However, not being best mates with your flatmates is fine too- most people make their best friends on their course or through societies.
- Can I still make friends if I don't drink? This is such a common question that there must be a lot of people going to uni who don't drink, or don't drink very often! Most societies do offer events that don't revolve around drinking, and most people do other things than just get drunk at uni. You will make friends, and everything will be fine!
- Will people judge me because I'm religious/ a virgin/ don't like clubbing/ have a medical condition? People who judge you for any reason aren't worth knowing. Most people at uni are really open minded, and will hopefully get along with you, but there will always be some rubbish people in every situation. If someone does judge you, they are the ones who will look bad. Just remember to keep an open mind, and respect that not everyone will have the same point of view as you.
Some people may also worry about the cost of living, or coping with study.
Don't forget that your uni can offer help with this if you need it, and they really want you to succeed. Ask for help if you need it!