Why westerner does this?

Put their elderly parents in a home but keep animals in their home.

Why they are doin these fings?

Then they've kinda wasted their life then haven't they. As Asians our whole lives are planned by our elders and our community so that we are effectively a cog serving the wider wheel of family and community. Our marriages are planned so that the relevent suitor is from a mutually similarly sort of background of decent standing, our education and careers are planned likewise so that they have solid prospects for the future and are lucrative and of ultimately when we come of age it is our duty to pay due diligence to the ones that helped us get there. As opposed to westerners who indulge in every whim and desire going and apply these misguided notions of fairness, freedom and democracy when in reality its just instant gratification they are trying to legitimise. If you have lived your entire life and haven't gathered enough wisdom and resources to support the people that made you then what the hell is your existence for; effectively you're just an animal.

Since when is providing a pet a loving home a bad thing?

I can't stand douches like you who think animals are nothing but dumb burdens to the world and so don't deserve a home.


And btw fix your English. I doubt anyone will take you seriously.

I prefer pets to humans.

Put their elderly parents in a home but keep animals in their home.

Why they are doin these fings?

Why do you Easterners eat dog and stone women accused of adultery to death?

Dogs are no less worthy of eating than cattle. Once a woman has displayed such a flagrant disregard for morality all her actions from that point are tainted and irrelevant. Would you trust a woman in business/trade for example if she had no moral/marital integrity? Probably not.

Dogs are no less worthy of eating than cattle. Once a woman has displayed such a flagrant disregard for morality all her actions from that point are tainted and irrelevant. Would you trust a woman in business/trade for example if she had no moral/marital integrity? Probably not.

I think you've completely misunderstood OP. And that was a bit mean as English may not be his/her first language. Just saying...

He/she wasn't saying anything about animals/ commenting on whether or not animals do/don't deserve a loving home but rather how some people willingly choose to live and care for their pets but not want to consider living and caring for their ageing parents by allowing them to stay under their own care through the comfort of their home. Rather, preferring to take their parents to old people's centres because they are viewed as extra baggage to be dealt with so they don't have to deal with the hassle in taking care of them.
In some cases, this does sadly happen and it makes me sick.
Some people would actually rather take care and handle living with a dog (not saying that animals are not important, this is coming from someone who they themselves has pets) rather than taking care of their parents/parent who went through hell and all efforts in life to love, raise and support them. I think that's cruel and I feel sorry for these parents.

I love my pets but I would rather take care of my mother any day even when she's dealing with the side effects of old age that can make living with her difficult such as memory loss, her not being able to walk- needing my attention or whether needing to be fed or changed after using a diaper because her body isn't functioning the same as it used to. Whatever it is, I would want for her to spend her final years with me and would not view her as a baggage.

I've visited old peoples homes/centres on different occasions as on Christmas day and eve me and my church like to give presents and sing Christmas carols to the elders in different homes as it makes them happy some one is visiting, showing they are remembered. Many of them seem very lonely and often are afraid they would die alone without their loved ones i.e children being their in their final moments, missing their children. It's sad. I can only hope that my own children will not do the same, not seeing me as baggage that needs to be dumped at a care home, being alone. This is why I respect some cultures because they avoid this from happening. But then again, not all people who leave their parents at care/old peoples homes have bad reasons but have sound reasons... some actually have the best intentions for their parents and because they are unfit of taking the responsibility send them there visiting regularly, even calling their parents daily/weekly to see how they are doing.