As the title suggests, one of my uni friends has become extremely promiscuous over the past year, and she has literally been given such a negative reputation by others and people think she is a laughing stock.
This may sound very judgmental, but she went through a couple of problems a few years ago, such as an eating disorder, and alcohol problems, which understandably may have affected her behaviour.
She literally sleeps with somebody different every night out, without always using condoms, as she says they ruin the experience. She goes home with random men she has just met, and just appears to offer sex on a plate. She has on a couple of different occasions slept with guys who are taken, and also tried to further pursue them, despite knowing they are in relationships, one of them being her workmate's boyfriend, which is out of order.
When we meet up as a group, she will tell us the latest men she has been with and other details, and doesn't seem to give a toss what people think. In fact, she almost seems to be proud of it. She acts as though she can have any man she wants, and does not seem to care if they are taken. She has also had relationships in the past, but they ended badly and I feel sorry for her for that reason, and I also wonder if she does just want a relationship, but is going about it in the complete wrong way,
There are a large group of guys who we know, and she has had sex with half of them. The thing is, we are worried she is going to end up pregnant or with an STD due to not using adequate protection, and having drunken one-night stands constantly. People who hardly even know her have been calling her a 'slag' and such like, and she is always talking about and buying sex toys; I do not want to sound prudish but sometimes I cringe at what I am told by her. We are worried she is acting this way as some sort of coping mechanism, due to her own personal problems.
If the girlfriends of one of these guys she has slept with finds out, she will be in extremely big trouble, and it's just a shame how people see her as a joke due to how she acts. Are we being overly judgmental? We just care about her and do not want people to be laughing at her, or for her to get hurt/in trouble. What do people think?