How to react when your parents find things in your room they shouldn't be finding?

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My parents come into my room but I don't think they'd ever go through my things...

I certainly hope not. My dad would probably throw me out. :lolwut:

There was this one awkward time when I ordered handcuffs and my dad beat me to the mail and opened the package by accident because we have the same initials. :facepalm:

My mum decided to open my mail as well, because we have the same initials. She claims it was a genuine accident, but she's scarred for life now. That'll teach her :colone:

Reply 41

username549578

Original post by kerily

The adjective 'god-awful' was in there for a reason, I'm afraid :tongue:

If there is an age at which one really should not write fiction, poetry, a blog, or indeed anything, it's 13!

Oh I was looking forward to that :frown:

My sister likes to write and she doesn't let me read her stories anymore... :afraid:

Reply 42

username549578

Original post by MyJunkIsYou

What about when you accidently find things in your parent's room you shouldn't be finding :s-smilie:

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I found a catalouge in my dads bedroom for sex toys when I was younger. I didn't tell him though, I just hid under the bed because I thought he would be angry I found his sexbook.

Original post by izzaha

off topic...

your sig hypnotizes me :colone:

(im a girl btw)

It does the same to me... awkward :s-smilie:

Reply 43

mirin?

Since people here are telling all:

Ice bong, 'used' tissues, unused condoms (wouldn't dare have sex at home because my parents are very conservative, which is why its embarassing, but didn't bother to throw them out after uni).

Reply 44

mirin?

Original post by Nick Longjohnson

Like butt plugs and dildos if you're a guy?

Yes, mirin.

Are you going to let me use them on you? Please say yes.

Reply 45

hlb29

Original post by Lewroll

Anything embarassing I have is on my computer and my parents are noobs so they don't know how to use them. I am safe. If I did have something they could find however, I would use the classic 'I'm looking after it for a friend' :wink:

What about a sex toy? :biggrin:

Reply 46

MyJunkIsYou

Original post by kerily

My mother went through my room when I was away (and I had no idea) and found 20 Marlboros, some god-awful diary entries from when I was 13 that I'd forgotten existed, some absolutely god-awful erotica from when I was 13 that I'd forgotten I'd written, two pairs of handcuffs, and various other items of S&M paraphernalia. (This was all hidden - she will have had to go looking, considering a lot of it was actually locked away. With a combination lock. I have no idea how she got into it.)

I decided that I had two options: either to die of shame and not speak to her ever again, or to just pretend it never happened and act like we'd never had that conversation. I went with the latter :wink:

This reminds me, I was once sat in the garden and suddenly a rucksack got thrown over the fence and whoever had thrown it ran off. Anyway I looked in the bag, it contained a manuscript for an erotic novel, we're talking 2 inches of hardcore erotica (I mean I had to read some of it just to know what it was :colondollar:

).

I took it into my parents and they didn't believe that it had been thrown over the fence. I was stood there going "what do you think I've been doing, writing an erotic novel in my bedroom and printing it off to send to publishers?" :tongue:

I think my dad ended up handing it in to the Police station, not quite sure what they made of that haha. It had the author's name on it but no other details so we were at a loss of how to return it.

Reply 47

Limesasquatch

Original post by Rananagirl

My parents come into my room but I don't think they'd ever go through my things...

I certainly hope not. My dad would probably throw me out. :lolwut:

There was this one awkward time when I ordered handcuffs and my dad beat me to the mail and opened the package by accident because we have the same initials. :facepalm:

Why... why did you order handcuffs?

I think there may be an interesting story behind this. Do you care to indulge me? (As for as I'm aware, indulge me means tell me - sort of - I don't mean it to be a sexual word)

Reply 48

TheSownRose

I'm pretty sure my mother found my riding crop one day. So what? As an adult, any S&M activity that I may or may not indulge in is perfectly fine.

Reply 49

BartholomewVarath

Those were there when we moved in.

Reply 50

Fantaisie

When I was 15 my dad found the neighbours son in my bed. :mmm:

I was downstairs getting ice cream.

Reply 51

Nick Longjohnson

Original post by mirin?

Are you going to let me use them on you? Please say yes.

Reply 52

viffer

Original post by Fantaisie

When I was 15 my dad found the neighbours son in my bed. :mmm:

I was downstairs getting ice cream.

Did your dad go for a ~~.44~~ Magnum? :smile:

Reply 53

Fantaisie

Original post by viffer

Did your dad go for a ~~.44~~ Magnum? :smile:

Ha. He actually didn't give a ****.

Reply 54

The Dark Lord

Somebody must have planted those there... but who...

Reply 55

KissMyArtichoke

Original post by Nick Longjohnson

Reply 56

-Invidious-

Mum saw my Zyzz and goal bodies folder; basically a folder full of ripped guys.

Now im sure she thinks im gay.

Reply 57

Loonylottie

Original post by abc:)

Tbh stuff like that has made me rle comfotable with my mum. She never rooted around but she has occasionally found stuff she wasn't meant to if she went in to tidy or something, and I'm always just honest about stuff. Now I don't have to hide stuff from her I could leave fags or weed or condoms lying around I don't think she'd care. (Maybe she would about the fags, she still does want to protect me!) But the point is I think if you're honest about it it's better than not confronting it and making things awkward.

She wants to protect you but doesnt care about the weed...? :confused:

Reply 58

abc:)

Original post by Loonylottie

She wants to protect you but doesnt care about the weed...? :confused:

Well she wouldn't encourage it obviously but she knows I'm gonna do some things she wouldn't like. Fags are her limit - she confiscated some off my little sister :')