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Reply 120
Original post by Chloe xxx
Not everyone is pressured into it. Many take it up of their own accord, for many reasons.


Because the money is better than getting a real job, and because it's easier to get a job as a prostitute. That's pressure.
Reply 121
Original post by ashtoreth
That's cool. Let's get back to debate subject then.

U have accepted u hadn't considered certain points regards addiction v sex working (which is why u wanted to debate it) You also sound young and not v hardened so u haven't been doing this v long, I'd guess. I work with addictions u see. Drugs/alcohol an sex workers, would u believe :smile:

Now lemme as 'you' a Q. When is your 'quit date'?


Of course some women take up sex work to pay for drug habits. In these cases, its the drug habit that needs addressing, and also the safety of the woman as they may be working the streets.

Why would I need to be hardened?
Reply 122
Original post by Rant
Because the money is better than getting a real job, and because it's easier to get a job as a prostitute. That's pressure.


Its not pressure, its temptation.

What is your point within your 'rants':biggrin:? That you disagree with the sex industry? That you think all sex workers are damaged abused women at the bottom of society?

How do you wish to eventually kill off the trade, by sterilising men with high testosterone? By abolishing mens sexual urges? :rolleyes: Good luck!
Original post by Chloe xxx
I'm young, have no problem attracting men etc, but because of circumstances when I was younger am lacking in GCSEs and live in an area of high unemployment. I hope I get destroyed by pompous posters here who will use their oh-so-valuable degree and university-life experience to prove theyre superior to me :rolleyes:


I think you have some sort of inferiority complex. No one thinks they are better than you because they have a degree and you don't. But stop trying to slander academic study with your sarcasm and sneering satire. Because yes a degree is oh-so-valuable.
Original post by U.S Lecce
Too old, lol he's dead!


Haha! My Bad :colondollar:

Definitley not going to happen now!
Original post by Chloe xxx
Why would I need to be hardened?


From my exp, u can tell how long they been doin business by their manner. Obvious but true, the longer they been hooked on the money, the more damaged/hardened they are.

After all, money is a drug too, no?
Reply 126
Yes it is, and its a fact many girls get addicted to the quick buck. I think this is one of the biggest problems with it, and some people cant give it up.
Reply 127
Original post by U.S Lecce
I think you have some sort of inferiority complex. No one thinks they are better than you because they have a degree and you don't. But stop trying to slander academic study with your sarcasm and sneering satire. Because yes a degree is oh-so-valuable.


Certain degrees are, yes.
Which leads back to your quit date, which u haven't said is 'when'

Just curious.
Reply 129
I cant really be bothered going into my life plan on here, why does it matter?
Because u didn't wanna debate, Chloe.

Not really.

For a while u just wanted to feel 'normal' - in amongst the boring plebs u deep down wanna be, but profess to be glad you're not.

Not tryin to do psych 101 or counsel u. Just sayin what I see.

Anytime u want an 'actual' debate. I'm your tigress :wink:

Nite chloe.
Reply 131
can we call it 'rent-a-vagina' instead?
Original post by Chloe xxx
I wont go into personal matters, but will say it isnt an issue in the slightest, 'daddy' also tops up my monthly income :wink:


Your parents are really okay with you sucking dick for money?
Original post by Chloe xxx
I am a sex worker amongst other things, and I agree with him.

I am not sure why you have the need to mention you are a sex worker to agree with him... I'm not a sex worker and I agree with him, she could make money to support herself and her family (quite a bit in fact). I see no problem with it at all but from what I watched it appeared that she did and does not wish to do it which is fair enough as it can be quite dangerous at times unless you do it through an agency and even then it can be dangerous too although overall not as dangerous if you get my drift :tongue:
Original post by Chloe xxx
If shes happy to have sex with multiple men, shes obviously attracted to multiple men, so would have no problem finding attraction in some of those willing to pay.

Being an escort can be as spontaneous as switching your phone on and waiting for the sex to arrive, AND receiving cash for it.

I care mostly about the cash, but this woman would clearly be satisfying her urges with her job too, which can only be a bonus.


Not everybody's experience of being a prostitute is the same as yours. You'll find it's far less glamorous for the masses.

I really enjoy sex, and I'm attracted to multiple men and would be happy to have sex with them too - but that doesn't mean I think it would be easy to go out there on the street (yes, I know you don't but lots of women do) and be attracted to every john who wants a quick **** from anything he can find. I think a good part of enjoying sex is often tied to the feeling of the chase, the mutual attraction etc. - I find the excitement would quickly go away if it was a job, and knowing I'm having sex with men who have to pay for it who might have little issue with the type of situations picking up a prostitute can cause.
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Original post by Rant
Because people are pressured into it, just as they're pressured into being exploited in other lines of work... however, sex work comes with bigger risks to physical and emotional health.


Tbh, I find your views sexist. Military work comes at risks to physical and emotional health, and a lot of people joining the Army have not got that many other options. To some, it's the opportunity to escape an abusive or dysfunctional home life, and a living.

Yet somehow to you the woman is a victim and the man is a perpetrator to you.
Original post by Nistar
I'd saying working in an office filing paper and typing on a computer is a little different to being a prostitute. Just saying. :redface:


Because from your middle class perspective, that's a 'normal' job?

I don't think you understand my point at all.
Reply 137
Eamonn Holmes is just an old dinosaur, put on this earth to make the Duke of Edinburgh seem normal. :wink:
Original post by Rant
Because the money is better than getting a real job, and because it's easier to get a job as a prostitute. That's pressure.


Being a prostitute is a real job. You work, you get paid, you pay tax.
Whats wrong with a ho making money from being a ho? The problem are the people funding the industry, not the workers themselves. I 100% agree with Eammon

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