After seeing this thread
http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=1992649&highlight=obesity+and+depressionabout why morbidly obese people are blamed for their condition unlike those suffering from depression I became rather frustrated at how ignorant so many people are about this.
I have heard people say things like how "paedophiles shouldn't be blamed for being attracted to children, however they are able to control how they act upon their impulses" but the truth is they can't. Just as those who are obese do not have willpower and have no more control over their condition than those suffering from mental illnesses do.
The truth is that we are a product of our experiences and our genetics. When we make a decision you need to think about what is actually happening. Our brain is producing hormones and chemicals which decide how we react to every situation, and the chemicals produced are based on our DNA and our environment. Humans have something called an epigenome which can change the structure of chromatin and the function of the genome, and unlike the genome the epigenome is affected by environmental factors. How could we possibly have any control over our environment or DNA??
This means that when an obese person is deciding whether they should have that donut, they cannot use their willpower to stop themselves if it is inherent in their genes and their epigenome to tell the brain to produce chemicals to make the decision to eat that donut. Many people of a healthy size look down on those with weight problems and say "I disciplined myself and refrained from letting myself get fat because I used my willpower", as if everyone else could have done the same, but no, they were just unlucky enough to inherit those genes and have the epigenome which told their brain to produce those chemicals to make the decision to eat all those fatty foods.
The argument here can be applied to many other situations like paedophilia as I mentioned earlier. (However, although I believe that paedophiles do not have control over their actions they should still be sent to prison for any crimes they commit against children to protect others, since it is written in the DNA and likely for them to offend again)
This is exactly the same as how if someone is suffering from a mental illness e.g. depression, their brain produces those chemicals which cause the illness.
This is what I am almost certain is true and other people need to realise this is the case. I would be interested if anyone could inform me of any flaws in my theory.
Edit: I just remembered watching a documentary about a boy with autism and it made me think about how people's behaviour is often excused if it can be blamed on a disorder and if it has a name. So for example this boy said things which may have offended people because he found it hard to read their emotions and empathise with them, and he found it hard to integrate in social situations. Of course he should not be blamed for his behaviour, but what annoys me is how if someone has not been diagnosed with a mental disability then they are blamed for their behaviour as if they can control it e.g. if someone has not been diagnosed with autism but they find it hard to interact with other people then they are blamed for not making an effort to be sociable, if other people can do it then why can't they etc. but no, they do not have any more control over it. It is inherent in their genes and epigenome, despite there not being a name for their behaviour such as aspergers. There are many similar examples.