Please read, need advice. My head's all over the place and don't exactly know where to go from here. Might be long, sorry, but I really would appreciate any advice.
I know the majority of you will tell me to move on, but I'm going to try one more shot to try and win back my ex, if it doesn't work, that's it. I'll move on.
I started going out with my ex, and a month or so in she told me she loved me (twice, when drunk). I was nowhere near ready to say it so told her I cared about her but not ready to say I love you. She dumped me the next day, claimed it was because mutual friends comparing her to my previous girlfriend and getting involved - turns out it was that, and due to the fact I didn't tell her I loved her. Talked her round and we got back together. Week later she ends it again. We stay close, times I was with her she said she wanted to kiss me, contemplated going out with me again, but couldn't because we'd tried it once. I stupidly fell for her whilst we were hanging out together, and even though we weren't 'together', being with her I realised how I felt for her. Anyway, she goes on a date and tells me. I go crazy, write her letters, texts etc. to try and talk her round. Nothing worked, so I told her I was moving on. That same night we end up doing stuff, we both tell each other how we feel. Same thing nearly happens the next day, we kiss, but she's concerned about her friends knowing - it was in her house, everyone was in. She then rings me and tells me it can't happen again. She then claims it was because she was drunk. She had had a cider when it happened, and the next day a cider early on in the day. I met up with her in the evening, so time to 'sober up'. We then say to try as friends. She encourages me to go on a date but get's jealous. The date I go on turns out to be a psycho and she starts emailing my ex. I call if off with her.
Week or so later my ex Skype's me when drunk. Says how a friend of mine tried to kiss her, and she even contemplated it but didn't. Says she doesn't like me because I'm a dick. Next day she claims to have no recollection of this. Couple of days later we get talking about our 'relationship' as friends. She says we can never be proper friends because of everything that's happened, and she feels she can't have a drink with me in case things happen between us. I then say to cut ties because it was all a mess and messing with my head. She blocks me on Facebook. Same night I have a problem with my bro and she helps me out. I say I want to be her friend, but she says no. The girl I went on the date with emails my ex again, to the point were my ex reports her to the police.
Tried to be civil with my ex, told her am sorry for how things have gone and want to essentially rebuild the relationship. She says it can't be fixed because am a dick, and even if it could be fixed it'll take a lot more than me texting her etc. and I should leave her for a bit. I haven't heard from her since, and I've not made contact. That was about a week ago now. She's at home for Easter and back in three weeks. She also feels like I blame her for the relationship not working out, when I told her it wasn't her fault.
So yeah. Is there anything at all I can do to fix this relationship, and maybe get back to the position where we could go out again, or is it hopeless?