Why don't I get on with most other girls? anyone else have this problem?

How's your relationship with your father?

It's alright I get on more with him than my mother.

I see. And herein lies your problem.

Do you own or have any experiences with horses?

I see. And herein lies your problem.

I see. And herein lies your problem.

Do you own or have any experiences with horses?

No but I don't hate horses or anything lol

I see. And herein lies your problem.

Do you own or have any experiences with horses?

I've realised all my life I've found it hard relating to girls.
Especially the ones who love attention, flirty , or the ones that have to be in a group an do everything together or talk about people b*tching or generally more extroverted than me.
Sometimes around them I'm quiet but I observe I do try and talk sometimes I'm always ignored and the girls never really talk to me I end up making the effort.
I don't know why I usually quite relaxed , not as emotional I don't talk about people behind their back, I'm nice to them they just seem to ignore me. Other times I've had girls hate me for no reason at all when we've never spoke to just hate me an talk about me. I usually just ignore everything an shrug it off not letting anything get to me.
I'm fairly independent I don't follow the crowd I just do whatever , I'm quite fashionable I'm told, I'm comfortable on my own sometimes. I'm friendly with most except it's harder around those types of girls I still try. I get on with other relaxed sorta girl or other girls who aren't cliqueish . I'm quite strong minded. I'm very into fitness & general health and I'm more relaxed talking to guys I'm a lot warmer an jokey although my closest friends are two girls and a guy.
I just don't understand why I don't relate to girls well.
I guess I am a little tomboy I don't dress that way at all I am still into some girly things like make up etc I just don't talk about it.

I feel like Freud has entered the room.

I see.

And what event made you utterly ashamed when you were young? Where all the eyes in the room where locked on you, where you just wanted a hole in the ground to swallow you up? As you glanced across the room to your father, craving affection but getting nothing but resentment?

This would be the perfect description of me last year. I don't know exactly why, but I became a lot more extroverted in the last six months. Maybe because I'm currently home educated and I have to make an effort to make friends...but who knows

Anyways, I don't think there really is a problem. You're an unique person who doesn't follow the crowd and that's an amazing thing. My best advice is to stay close to the friends you do have now and ignore the ones that gossip and are attention-seeking. You can be nice to them but you don't necessarily have to befriend them...or at least that's what I did. Hope that helps!!

I don't know where this is going....there's no conflict with my an my father ....

Thats the thing I don't really have any friends I'm close to in uni yet as I had to ditch the group of girls I hung with cause I felt they ignored me and I made all the effort I know I was quiet some times I was just never comfortable with them. I have acquaintances I talk to occasionally I just don't hang with anybody at breaks anymore.

Perhaps you get on better with men than women?

I'm the same - I get on better with men than women, however I have more female friends that male friends.

I've realised all my life I've found it hard relating to girls.
Especially the ones who love attention, flirty , or the ones that have to be in a group an do everything together or talk about people b*tching or generally more extroverted than me.
Sometimes around them I'm quiet but I observe I do try and talk sometimes I'm always ignored and the girls never really talk to me I end up making the effort.
I don't know why I usually quite relaxed , not as emotional I don't talk about people behind their back, I'm nice to them they just seem to ignore me. Other times I've had girls hate me for no reason at all when we've never spoke to just hate me an talk about me. I usually just ignore everything an shrug it off not letting anything get to me.
I'm fairly independent I don't follow the crowd I just do whatever , I'm quite fashionable I'm told, I'm comfortable on my own sometimes. I'm friendly with most except it's harder around those types of girls I still try. I get on with other relaxed sorta girl or other girls who aren't cliqueish . I'm quite strong minded. I'm very into fitness & general health and I'm more relaxed talking to guys I'm a lot warmer an jokey although my closest friends are two girls and a guy.
I just don't understand why I don't relate to girls well.
I guess I am a little tomboy I don't dress that way at all I am still into some girly things like make up etc I just don't talk about it.