Ugh...girls, stop projecting your insecurities onto your mans actions. It wasn't right for him to lie about it, but at the same time it wasn't right for you to put him in the position to feel he should lie about it. Watching porn is a normal thing, unless he has a severe psychological dependency or addiction (which is rare and totally not what is happening). Look, if him watching porn makes you uncomfortable, this doesn't indicate that you should talk to your man and suggest that he refrain from a very normal and typically harmless personal activity, this means that you have some personal insecurities that you need to grow up and deal with. Don't make your insecurities his problem...Jesus. now, if porn is taking presidency over your sex together, that's a reasonable thing to talk about. He doesn't need to be shamed out of watching porn or feel he needs to lie about it, but if your sexual needs are not bring met as a direct result of how often he turns to porn as an alternative, then talking about why that is and how to get your sexual needs met is reasonable. It boils down to this, if your sex life is good with him and he makes you feel happy and attractive in other ways, the that uncomfortable feeling you get with him watching porn...that's a you issue and you shouldn't make your partner deal with your issue by changing himself. Just tell him not to lie and apologize for being a crazy hoe and making your insecurities his problem...then go watch some porn.
(Written by 28yr old female with a boyfriend that watches porn nearly every day and makes me feel like the hottest **** to walk the earth even though I have cellulite, imperfect skin, and big Jew nose.) Those girls in the porn he's watching have insecurities too! We all do lol it's just part of being human, especially a female human lol but we can deal with it like big girls and let it the frick go and get on with our bad selves.