Lesbian dreams/porn but I'm straight?!

I've always looked at lesbian porn. I prefer looking at women's bodies and it appeals to me more than straight porn (though I occasionally watch this too). It's more the bodies I'm interested in, rather than the sexual acts. So I tend to watch solo videos and stripteases. However, the thought of doing something or having a relationship with a woman in real life doesn't appeal at all, and in fact turns me off.

Lately these weird fantasies have been crossing over into my dreams (even when I'm sleeping next to me boyfriend!). I wake up and for the first few minutes it's like I have lesbian desires then after a few minutes the feeling fades.

I don't understand all this. I'm completely straight in terms of wanting boyfriends and finding guys attractive (I've never fancied a girl irl) but I seem to have an obsession with women and their bodies when it comes to sex.

Surely this isn't normal?

Reply 1

inachigeek21

I have never ever heard of this sort of thing in my entire life OP..

Reply 2

LavenderBlueSky88

Original post by inachigeek21

I have never ever heard of this sort of thing in my entire life OP..

Loads of girls prefer lesbian porn...

Reply 3

BefuddledPenguin

Probably bisexual erring heavily on the side of straight, but 100% hetero romantic.

You aren't the only person like this, I've met others with similar feelings.

Reply 4

jay2013

My mate was like this!

Reply 5

lukasthepoet

a person's sexuality is made up of two things
Romantic feelings
+
Sexual feelings

Its possible to have sexual feelings for a particular gender but romantic feelings for another for example.
In the case of asexuality, a person may have romantic feelings for people but no sexual attraction.
It seems like you have romantic attraction to guys, but some sexual attraction to girls with no romantic attraction to them.
Its normal. Despite what society wants you to belief, all aspect of human nature is on a spectrum. especially sexuality.
Embrace, see it as a normal part of who you are. Its not negatively affecting your life.

Reply 6

queenphobe

I'm not saying 'THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE'. But it sounds like you might be heteroromantic bisexual. Remember, sexuality is this huge spectrum and you shouldn't feel the need to label yourself. Just accept that you feel this way and move on it's not a big deal. If you want to, you can take a while to get to know yourself and your sexuality, in other words, a 'questioning' period. Who knows what the future holds for you? Right now, concentrate on the things that make you happy.