Dear Lockie123,
I realise that this reply is a bit late but I hope that you will read it.
I was in a similar situation to you. I am 27 and I have recently taken up A-Levels in Mathematics. I studied History at University, so I have not touched maths in just over 10 years.
I think that a lot of the replies here are wonderful and well meaning. However, I think that it is extremely important that you are reminded how difficult Mathematics is. I would argue that most of the students here have probably gone straight from GCSE into A-Level. There will be many processes that they are therefore extremely familiar.
BIDMAS – for example. This tells us the order in which we must complete an equation.
This means that:
(-2)^2 = 4.
But…
-2^2 = -4.
When you are dealing with difficult problems, it is extremely important that your basic skills are very good. Lengthy equations that take a few minutes to work out, might be wrong because you used an incorrect sign earlier on.
At the beginning, this can be extremely disheartening.
Having studied A-Level Mathematics as a mature student, I have a much greater appreciation of its complexity and to an extent, its beauty! It is my opinion that developing an aptitude in Mathematics is similar to playing a musical instrument. A-Level Maths can not be learned in a binary fashion and then just regurgitated at a later date. You have to practise it, A LOT! Mathematics is a skill and you will have to be prepared to work extremely hard at it.
I think that if you have gone straight from GCSE to A-Level, it is a little easier. Your brain has a better ability to understand numbers. Going from a non-mathematical profession and then studying a Mathematical subject at University will be hard. Really hard.
I do not believe the average person could develop the skills necessary for University level Maths within a year. You might be extremely intelligent or have a savantish ability for Mathematics. In which case you may pick it up very quickly.
As a mature student myself, I found it extremely challenging and extremely humbling studying Maths.
My advice:
Try out different Mathematics tutors. Different tutors will articulate problems in different ways. It would be wise to find a tutor that works well with you.
You are going to have to work hard. I would try to consider it a job and aim to do a minimum of 4-6 hours a day.
I am sure that users here will disagree with me, but I wanted to offer my opinion. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you are able to do well at University. I just wanted to kindly inform you that you might be in for a bit of a shock. If you would like to discuss this privately or would like any more assistance then please let me know and I will send you my email address.
Good Luck!