Help....

I just started at college and i met a girl who is just like me, same ambitions etc.
I have tried talking to her and i at least made her smile, i'm a good talker, I looked at her eyes while i spoke, but the problem is, she has a bf :frown:

I really want her, i have never felt anything like this b4, i avoided her today because i don't want to be hurt.
I am stuck.. i'm not sure how to say how i feel as she's got a bf...
plz plz help.. she's goin on holiday on Thursday and i don't have much time.

Reply 1

username47781

20

Not much you can do unfortunatly, she has a boyfriend and i am afraid you must respect that, nothing wrong with talking and being friends but there ain't much else you can do.

Reply 2

Eshwe

Im afraid you'd be better off being the bigger man and leaving it. You dont have the right to interfere (sp?) with her and her bf.

Reply 3

xelprep

Kill the boyfriend without witnesses.

Reply 4

Kjata

OP

yeah, I thought that she loved him and i don't have a right to split em, but i don't think i will ever find anyone as unique as her...
Cmon guys.. i need help... i just can't stop thinking about her!

Reply 5

Kjata

OP

Hi again everyone... I tried talking to her again today, and i got really sad cause she's gone on hols now and i can't see her for a while... please give me a bit of help on what i should do...

Reply 6

Guffy

Never rub another man's rhubarb.

Reply 7

maag101

1

Seriously, do you know what a search button is? There are soooo many people who come on here and say 'I like this girl but she's taken/is only a friend and I don't want to ruin the friendship' We've given all the advice we can. Please look up past threads. I'm sure you can find at least ten in the past week.

Next?

Reply 8

Kjata

OP

OK fair point everyone.. although it's not a regular crush.

Reply 9

Sam Beckett

7

Kjata

Hi again everyone... I tried talking to her again today, and i got really sad cause she's gone on hols now and i can't see her for a while... please give me a bit of help on what i should do...

You know how many other girls there are in the world?

Don't be psychoboy and think you love her or get all infatuated. Move on.

Reply 10

Kjata

OP

OK, i have tried it, but of course it's easier said than done

Reply 11

Jonquil

10

Just keep on trying babes, you'll feel better soon, promise xXx :smile:

Reply 12

Kjata

OP

Thanks... that's the nicest comment i've had so far lol

Reply 13

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

Kjata

I just started at college and i met a girl who is just like me, same ambitions etc.
I have tried talking to her and i at least made her smile, i'm a good talker, I looked at her eyes while i spoke, but the problem is, she has a bf :frown:

I really want her, i have never felt anything like this b4, i avoided her today because i don't want to be hurt.
I am stuck.. i'm not sure how to say how i feel as she's got a bf...
plz plz help.. she's goin on holiday on Thursday and i don't have much time.

I'm really sorry but if she does have a boyfriend, I personally think you should leave her alone and don't confuse the girl. Let her be, it will hurt I know :hugs:

but, if she and her boyfriend call it quits at some point then you should tell her how you feel and ask her out then, but not now.

Reply 14

Kjata

OP

Yeah i know that they will split cause when i said "ambitions", i meant she wants to go 2 Australia... :frown:

By then it will be too late for me.. ah well i reckon Sam was right maybe i should do something to forget her..i'm gonna be hurt either way.
Oh yea, another factor is that i don't think her bf treats her very well cause she was crying cause of him last week.

Reply 15

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

Kjata

Yeah i know that they will split cause when i said "ambitions", i meant she wants to go 2 Australia... :frown:

By then it will be too late for me.. ah well i reckon Sam was right maybe i should do something to forget her..i'm gonna be hurt either way.
Oh yea, another factor is that i don't think her bf treats her very well cause she was crying cause of him last week.