Someone was perfect for me but you were pre-occupied at the time

I know that I can be attracted to different people, but there's not enough there mentally, or it's hard to get that real clicking thing. I think experience has taught me, and hindsight that this person was right for me. Great attraction, it felt unforced, natural. Only problem is other women in the picture at the time, and too many problems, financial and life problem, and couldn't handle the notion of commitment and thought by her advances she may have wanted a kid fairly soon, she maybe felt her biological clock ticking. But now I realise how much I liked and was attracted to her, how perfect the connection was, it was just natural. I could see myself living with her and can't say that for many people, well anyone really. I think that's rare. I'd love to know if she's gone off and had kids, or if she's still available. Basically I'm asking how to find her. I think she is private with web usage. I know her first name and profession vaguely, and where she works, so it sounds easy but maybe she moved work , and she's not on the web.

Can anyone help me?

Reply 1

shawn_o1

who is "you" (you mean "her" right)

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

Sorry, someone was perfect for me but I was preoccupied.

Reply 3

shawn_o1

I would not worry about this tbh, as long as you keep socialising you may find someone better

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by shawn_o1

I would not worry about this tbh, as long as you keep socialising you may find someone better

Well, I'm a bit older, sure you can meet a lot, but this was perfect, felt so natural being together and she was my physical type, just a stunning Indian and our babies would have been gorgeous. Not often you find someone it feels so natural being with. Also, there was no grass is greener to it, wanting something you can't have. She was physically gorgeous.